Sex Advice and Human Sexuality. 

Ann, our sexpert, gives you honest, straight forward answers to your burning questions about sex, keeping the spark in long term relationships and how to just relax and really enjoy your sexual experiences.  So come on in and see how you too can have a better sex life.

  1. Erection Problems
    Do you have trouble getting an erection from the start or do you lose your erection, when you have to put on a condom or when the attention is put on you?  Does she give you oral sex?  Does that get you erect?  I may need more details to help narrow down the cause, but then again I'm not a doctor, so I can only help you so much.
  2. How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Marriage
    But, about 2 years into our relationship, I asked her to marry me. Keep in mind, sexual activities began to stale about 6 months. before that. But, I love her, so it wasn't an issue than. I assumed it a 'phase'.
    Well, that phase is in it's 6th year and rolling! We do make love, but she acts odd (in my opinion.)
    -She never initiates sex.
  3. Threesomes
    Has anyone had experience in bringing a third person into the bedroom?  My wife and are thinking of it (a male first) and we'd like to know how others fared.  We're also thinking about a couple swapping experience.  Any thoughts?
  4. Premature Ejaculation
    I have had this problem since I started having sex about 4 years ago. Me and my girlfriend fool and around and the foreplay alone lasts anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours, during this whole time I am always hard as a rock, sometimes it's so hard that it literally aches and throbs. However, when it comes time for actual penetration I find that I can only hold out 5-7 minutes max before I just explode inside her, it feels so good that I just can't help it. Is this normal?
  5. Tantric Sex
    I was reading one of your Q/A sessions about male ejaculation, and you mentioned a thing called Tantric, and how it is suppose to help guys orgasm but not ejaculate.  What is this and where can I learn more about it?
  6. Strap Ons and Naughty Home Movies
    Our video camera and tripod are the favortie sex toys of my girlfriend and I.  I fully recommend shooting your own raunchy videos with your partner.  Whether you want role playing and a story line is up to you.  Half the fun is acting for the camera, and displaying each of our arsenal of different positions.  
  7. All Sex Advice (Summer 2001)
    Difficult Ejaculation - Strap-on Dilemma - Multiple Orgasms - Can't Ejaculate With Her - Butt Plugs - Problem Having Orgasm - Need A Sex Position - Anal Sex Concern -
  8. Male Multiple Orgasm
    Can men orgasm and remain hard? My boyfriend claims to orgasm and ejaculate during sex, yet he remains hard and can keep going. Is this possible?
  9. Increase Ejaculate
    My semen used to shoot out with some force, but now it seems to have difficulty coming out and it is only after several contractions does it ooze out. I am a male in my 50s who has a very high libido. I have no problem getting and maintaining a good erection but I am wondering what might cause this because I'm afraid that it might diminish my pleasure of the orgasm.
  10. Average Penis Size
    What is the average penis size? I have seen in XXX movies that the men have extra long penises. So I want to know what is the normal size of the penis and what would be considered as abnormal.
  11. Penis Enlargement Technique
    I have seen a lot of advertising about increasing your penis size by inches and thickening your penis. Some talk about pills while others talk about using natural stimulation. Will any of this work? I wouldn't mind being a little thicker and longer. I think it would make me feel better.
  12. Sex Tip for Woman
    My boyfriend and I have good sex. But I never really do anything. I want to be able to please him without having him do all the work. Do you have any advice about what I can do as a woman to make his work load easier and more enjoyable?