[Budde]

Yup thats what they call it and I personally love it when my wife does it to me. It drives me crazy and just fuels the fires of passion. She has done it to me on more then one occasion and with a fee hand has played with my cock which gets hard again with in a few minutes if that. She says it's one of the reasons why she does it to me plus she knows I love it when she does it. If he is so opposed to you at least trying it then just ask him straight up. It's OK for me to have your cum in my mouth but not in yours? ell then me might have to re-think the blowjob policy around here. When you get right down to it. It's a completely fair request. I've posted a some what similar response to a poster who wanted to know how he could talk his g/f in to letting him have anal sex with her. I suggested he go out and get a dildo approx. the same size as he was and a tube of KY and say OK lets re-think the anal sex thing and hand her the dildo and the KY and say OK you go first. Sorry but I'm from the school of whats fair for one is for the other.

The bottom line is just tell him how much it would excite you and turn you on if he would be willing to at least give it a try. If he concedes to a try and then he says no more OK then you should abide by his wishes.

Good Luck...