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just thought id add my two sence. Im bi, i enjoy being with my b/f and i enjoy being with a chick. And yes, i have met some very talented women out there that have been amazing at it, but i truly find that no one can compare to my man, if you know what i mean. Because im more comfortable with him, im relaxed, but when its a chick im just fooling around with, its not the same connection for me. I have to agree with Larry, if your not experienced, it might not leave that "that was the one of the best" marks. Practice makes perfect, yeah theres always people out there that just cant get it, but not every person is perfect at everyting. The first time i went down on a gurl, it helped that i knew what she liked, she was a good friend and we were very open about talking about our bfs and what they did hat we liked and didnt, so i kinda had an easier experiance, but my first time with someone that i didnt know that well, im sure i wasnt that good...im sure for some people beginers luck might play a roll, but really communication and paying atention to their actions (actions speek louder then words) will pay off trust me.