How long to wait for sex

[baginafaceblah]

iv been dating this girl for about 2 weeks now and we are gettin really confortable with each other...we make out all night long and the other night i was a bit buzzed but i fingered her a bit...she hasnt really touched my penis yet but she has petted around the area..im just wondering how long she we wait until sex...it is both our first times and im feeling kinda pressured to make a move...but i really just wanna wait until maybe we are drunk or something aahah so its not all awkward and nerve racking...

also im having trouble with going down on her...cuz im kinda turned off cuz she doesnt shave down there...i think its gross kinda...its really gettin to me...

any advice?? thx

[Evle]

Okay dude;
You will know when it's time. Do not do it because you feel presured in any way.
As to the drink, I think it was the Bard himself who said, "Strong drink giveth the desire, but taketh away the ability". Don't know about everyone else, but first times tend to not go well. You will probably either be so excited you'll last about 6 second or so nervous you will not be able to finish. Booze will not help with this.
My advice: When the time is right... try and make it romantic. Spend time on her doing foreplay. Kissing, alot of kissing. Gently massage her body, normal areas first, then the fun spots. Finger her gently, then maybe more. Go down on her, if she wants it, some women don't like it, think it's "Icky". Oh yeah, about the hair... Cowboy the F@#k on Up! You think she wants to stick your pecker in her mouth? Maybe one makeout session should include shaving or at least trimming... don't forget yourself there Bushy Boy.
I honestly don't think 2 weeks is long enough, it may not mean much to you, but I guarentee you she will feel alot about it.
Good luck Bubba;
Evle.
PS anymore questions, put it up here, there is alot of acculimated knowledge on this board.

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by baginafaceblah

iv been dating this girl for about 2 weeks now and we are gettin really confortable with each other...we make out all night long and the other night i was a bit buzzed but i fingered her a bit...she hasnt really touched my penis yet but she has petted around the area..im just wondering how long she we wait until sex...it is both our first times and im feeling kinda pressured to make a move...but i really just wanna wait until maybe we are drunk or something aahah so its not all awkward and nerve racking...

also im having trouble with going down on her...cuz im kinda turned off cuz she doesnt shave down there...i think its gross kinda...its really gettin to me...

any advice?? thx

First if your fingering her your having some kind of sex.i guess you mean intercourse?...also why would you want to be drunk?..you both should talk and make sure you are both ready.when i was young petting was first,leading to manual[fingering,handjobs,then oral],that kept us both satisfied until the moment was right.intercourse is a big step when your both virgins and it's always going to be a bit awkward.....as for her not shaving down there ,ask her to shave or ask if you can do it,maybe you'll both get to know each other's bodies before you make this big step....also do you shave for her?..maybe she thinks the hair on you down there is gross...is there alot of feelings involved between both of you?..sex with someone you love is always the best

[baginafaceblah]

well we have kind of dry humped hahah and she also rubbed my "area" crazyishly with her thigh like really hard...i dont know..i just dont want to feel pressured because she gets really horny when we are in foreplay..when im playing or licky her nipples she started breathing really hard and thrusting her pelvis area lol so she seems to be ready but i dont want to make a move because im not sure that im ready GRRR

o yea and ill be really turned on and stuff but then she put her hand a bit down my underwear and i just lose my erection a bit when she starts that...its like i start getting worked up and nervous...i dont want her to do anything and see that im not turned on down there..