Inexperienced Guy with Experienced Girl

[Inexperienced]

Hi Everyone,

This is my first post, so I appologise if i've put it in the wrong place or anything.

I'm just looking for a bit of advice really, and would be gratefull for any help you could all give me. (Sorry for the long post)

Basically i'm very inexperienced when it comes to sex, relationships, dating and girls in general. Its really embarrasing cos im 25 years old, im not a virgin, ive slept with 1 girl, who was also a virgin at the time, we were both 17... it really didnt go well, so I havent learned much from the experience at all.

I've dated plenty if girls in the past (they always ask me out as ive always been too shy to make the move) but none of them have ever been quite right for me, I just have never fancied them, if you know what I mean. I kind of say yes to them as I dont want to offend.

Anyway ill try to cut my life story a little shorter and get to the point

I've basically met this girl, well i've known her for 2 years, we kind of work together sometimes, shes 23. I've fancied her so much since the first second I looked at her... about 8 months ago, I found out that she really likes me too, and basically we've been talking on msn every night since. We also started going out for meals and to the cinema and stuff a couple of weeks ago, theres been nothing sexual at all, apart from a kiss goodnight when I drop her off. I know she really likes me, and I definately like her, i've never felt this way about any one before, I dont know if it could be love or not!

My problem is that im really scared about when the time comes to have sex, I really want to, and im sure she does too. But im just scared cos im so inexperienced and havent got a clue what to do, apart from jump on and stick it in and out .. I know she is very experienced when it comes to sex, she has a 3 year old child, and I know thats shes slept with many guys and had one night stands etc (I just know, its a longer story) Am I right to be scared?

Another reason im worried is that im not very big down below (5") and obviously she will have been with guys bigger than me, what will happen if she thinks im crap in bed? Also as I said above she has had a child, is it any different having sex with a girl whos had a baby? in the sence that her vagina will be big (dont know if ive worded that right) as I think that maybe she will not even feel me going inside her. Do girls compare with guys theyve been with?

I read that poeple say its not size that matters, its what u do with it. But in my case I dont know what to do with it!! Will I mess everything up with her?

Some people will probably say that I should go for girls that are more at my experience level, but I cant cos I like her so much. Im certain that she knows that im inexperienced, cos im so shy and innocent looking (people tell me), maybe thats what she likes about me, I dont know!

I want advise on what to do, and how to do it, whether its me or her who makes the move. Please just give me ur opinions on what to do...

Thanks and sorry for the long post.

[Luvoral]

First of all your a normal size and size doesn't matter[to most].Second I've had a baby and my pussy is tight as heck..So she's experienced,quit worrying about the macho crap.Sence one of you is experienced is an advantage...NO,you just don't stick it in,how about some intimacy [kissing,caressing,oral,etc]..All you have to do is be honest and if she cares about you she will understand and help show you the way...By the way her past is none of your business,forget and move on,or get down on it!

[Inexperienced]

Thanks for the reply, I know none of her past is my business, but she told me!!!!

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by Inexperienced

Thanks for the reply, I know none of her past is my business, but she told me!!!!

Well for one thing she is being honest with you and doesn't want you to be shocked or disappointed in her because of past behavior as we all make mistakes[such as one night stands],but that doesn't make her bad even if it wasn't a mistake...If you both care about each other and are loyal,feel lucky you have found an honest and open women who shares her past with you...Also wanted to mention that I had a penis that was about 4 inches,it still hit that magic spot...Relax and enjoy!