Lack of Girth

[saracino]

I'm about as round as a toilet paper roll at the tip but only about 4 inches around at the base. It clearly doesn't appear to be enough for my wife. It's also gotten worse after we've had two kids. She doesn't have vaginal orgasms from my cock. When I eat her and use my fingers or a dildo she has powerful orgasms that really GRIP if you know what I mean. She's had about 20 partners and says she's never had a vaginal orgasm with any of them but I don't beleive her. I just know she's lying to "protect me". I've thought about using a girth enhancer such as the Hot Rod or something similar However, I think its kind of emasculating to have to do this and especially SHE will thiink I'm less of a man for it. I'm worried she won't be aroused mentally b/c of this and will actually like sex less b/c of this. Especially since I haven't found a girth enhancer that looks like a real dick. I worry about our marriage too since we're only 35 and she's reaching her sexual prime. I'd like to hear from the women out there who've faced this issue as well as guys.

[Evle]

You know... it's amazing how much some men relate penis size with being a man.
Have you talked to your wife about this?
I doubt it's nearly as much an issue with her as it is with you. So she doesn't have orgasims from having intercourse with you.... duh, most women don't have orgasims from intercourse. If she's said she hasn't in the past, maybe think about believing her.
Unless she has come right out and told you... "Honey, I hate how thin your cock is, it's only AVERAGE! I want to go out and find me a man that I don't love but has a soda can for a cock... are you okay with this?" I wouldn't worry. Your concern and picking at this issue is more likely to tick her off and get her to be exsasperated with you than anything else.
My advise, as a guy... don't worry about it.
Evle

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by saracino

I'm about as round as a toilet paper roll at the tip but only about 4 inches around at the base. It clearly doesn't appear to be enough for my wife. It's also gotten worse after we've had two kids. She doesn't have vaginal orgasms from my cock. When I eat her and use my fingers or a dildo she has powerful orgasms that really GRIP if you know what I mean. She's had about 20 partners and says she's never had a vaginal orgasm with any of them but I don't beleive her. I just know she's lying to "protect me". I've thought about using a girth enhancer such as the Hot Rod or something similar However, I think its kind of emasculating to have to do this and especially SHE will thiink I'm less of a man for it. I'm worried she won't be aroused mentally b/c of this and will actually like sex less b/c of this. Especially since I haven't found a girth enhancer that looks like a real dick. I worry about our marriage too since we're only 35 and she's reaching her sexual prime. I'd like to hear from the women out there who've faced this issue as well as guys.

Very few women have vaginal orgasms and it's not the size of your man meat that counts..Heard the old saying ''it's how you use it''..In different positions my h/b can hit my g-spot,only using about half of his lenght and with some stim to my clit I have an orgasm.If she has kept in good shape by doing her kegel exercises,tightening pc muscles after birth i'm sure she's not looking for a coke bottle.If she's having great orgasm from oral,fingers,etc why are you worrying..I love to lots of foreplay then have vaginal which leads to orgasms,where I tighten up and grip,but then become very loose due to the fluids I release.[those pussies are very complicated]..As for all those enhancers,I doubt that any of them work[rip offs]..As for 20 partners,why is that mentioned?..I doubt that she is lying..As for her sexual prime at 35,could be true.I just turned 50 and have better and more sex than ever..Quit worrying about her prime time,it's the man who ends up taking that little blue pill....

[Budde]

And your gonna fix this problem how,with a piece of rubber? Come on give yourself a break. Did the thought ever cross your mind that maybe she's telling you the truth? Fact many women NEVER have a vaginal orgasm so relax. Fact of the matter is medically speaking the G-spot is typically only about two inches inside the vagina so even someone with a less then average sized penis can contribute to their partners orgasm. Besides the size of your cock doesn't determin what makes you a man or not it's what you've got inside that counts. Relax and stop putting undo pressure on yourself take your time and concentrate your energy with your wife on helping er achieve an orgasam. Listen to her words, observe her body language etc. From what every woman I have ever been with has told me along with everything I've read concludes that an orgasm for a woman is as much a state of mind thing as it is a physical thing. So the best person to ask is your wife. What she likes and don't like etc. In a lot of cases there are better positions then others for a vaginal orgasm then others.