[anothergirl]

My partner and I have a lot of sex. I'm usually the aggressor, but things are going well. He and I are very honest and open and tell one another if we're not in the mood. This weekend, he got up before me and was taking a shower. I could hear a very...rhythmic, squishy noise through the door and thought he might be masturbating. Rather than letting it go, I thought I'd join him. I can't pass up sex with him. I went in and he gave no hint that he had been masturbating, other than he was hard and I gave no hint that I knew what he had been doing. We made love in the shower (he was unable to finish, saying it was because we'd just had sex 6 hours before), but I'm hyper sensitive in retrospect...was I interrupting his private time? Should I respect his masturbating (if he was) and let him choose that if he'd rather not have sex? We talk about a lot of things, but I'd rather not ask him this so soon after that incident as I don't want to embarrass him...

Thanks!