SexyGirl,
Mindset has a lot to do with ability to not only get off, but get aroused in the first place. If you're feeling really tired, if you've been stressed or worried about things, issues or people in your life, it can be difficult to shut all that off for sexual pleasure. Sometimes you can get right into it and other times you need to relax and work your way there.
You may also think about your environment when masturbating. Sometimes a woman can easily do it in the shower or lay down on the couch and rub one out with what seems like no effort. There are other times when it's best to set a sexy environment with lights, music, erotica or porn. So you may want to look into that as well.
Things that happens to us in life has an affect on our sex life be it with a partner(s) or masturbation because sexual pleasure is not just a physical thing it's emotional/intellectual as well.
Ann
