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Originally Posted by Virgo  Hi,  I'm going to assume you're a girl?
It is difficult for some women to have orgasms, simply because masturbating isn't something a lot of girls get told about, or encouraged to explore.
How do you feel when you masturbate? You should be relaxed and feeling sexy and hopefully thinking sexy thoughts. If you don't have any fantasies as such then you could try reading some erotic literature online or a particularly sexy book.
Then just stay relaxed and explore your body. Just find out what works best for you. Touch yourself gently around your vagina and clit, figuring out which movements feel good.
Orgasm doesn't have to be your end goal, just do what feels nice and make you feel good. If you carry on like that you may well have an orgasm by accident anyway!
If all else fails you could consider some kind of small vibrator for clit stimulation, a lot of women sweare by them!
Most important thing is your mood though, stay relaxed, and feel sexy! |
Yep I'm a girl. One question about the vibrator though. As I said, I'm a virgin so I'm worried that I could get used to the vibrator and be disappointed when I actually have sex. I've heard that some women can't even get off without a vibrator. And I don't want all the pleasure of losing my virginity to be gone because I've already experienced something similar. Do you think I should try one out anyway?