Showing my wife's big breasts to other men

This section of the forum calls itself "Expert Advice" and that's what I'm looking for. Here's my 'problem', and be patient:

I've been posting pictures of my wife's big gorgeous breasts anonymously on amateur sites for some years. I don't know why I love letting other men jack off to her tits this way, but I do. Recently, however, when we went to Arizona on vacation just to get away from everyone we know, I asked my wife if she would "be my whore" and wear some very revealing blouses and show off her tits in public. She did it for me, and we bought her some great sheer cleavage blouses and a bathing suit that showed almost her whole breasts! I loved parading her around while men all stared at her big tits, in the lobby of the hotel, at the pool, at a Giants game (Giants were playing in AZ that week). I loved it! Then, we went to Mexico a couple months later with my sister in law and her husband and I asked her to do it again, and I LOVED how my brother in law just stared at my wife's big tits every day, and she seemed to enjoy showing them off everywhere we went.

When we got back from Mexico, I sent a few topless photos of my wife to my best friend via email, hoping he would jack off to her pictures. Then, when he came to my office to go to lunch, I would load one of her topless pictures on my computer so he would see her breasts when he came in.

Now I've been fantasizing about having Jack Off Nights with two of my buddies, where all of us sit on the couch and jack off while my wife stands in front of us and shows us her tits, and lets my friends suckle her while they jack off. (That fantasy led to imagining them fucking her tits and her sucking them off while I watched. I find that fantasy VERY fun. I believe that's called "cuckolding").

A part of me is afraid she'll enjoy this showing off too much and might do it when I'm not there which might lead to her having an affair. (My first wife was a risque dresser and she had an affair).

I'm wondering if my desire to show off my wife's big tits has a name (you know, like "voyeur" or "exhibitionist", a name like that for people who like to show off their wife's tits). And I'm wondering why I like doing this. Most men don't WANT other men looking at their wives.

What's wrong with me and why am I this way?

Thanks,

Dan

[Cherry]

Some people just like showing off their significant other's assets. It's all about being able to say, "Look at this! Look at what I've managed to get my hands on, and it's mine all mine, but look wouldn't you like to play with it, too?" Psychologically, who truly knows why things turn us on. I mean, I don't quite understand why getting my ass beaten painfully turns me on, but it does. Suffice it to say, it's not abnormal, nor deviant behavior, nor unhealthy. it's just something that works for you and your wife. I say don't worry and just enjoy that aspect of your relationship.

Phantom: That's how I found this forum. I searched on Google. It's called "allsexadvice.com", after all. I was looking for some answers and thought I might find them here.

Cherry: You made a lot of sense. Like voyeurism and exhibitionism, however, I'm just seeking more information on what my behavior is called and why people like me enjoy it, as well as what happens 'typically' over the long haul when it's practiced. Thanks.

[Cherry]

I guess I don't really so much worry about trying to label my kinks and quirks. I just embrace 'em and thank my lucky stars there's someone in my life who I can share 'em with.

[Chinball_Wizard]

Flirting or showing her tits "by acident" to total strangers is one thing, but a blatant public exhibition of her charms may get you more attention than you want. One day she is going to flash some guy who is going to figure that she is available for more than just show.
You might end up getting your ass kicked while your wife gets to entertain 4 or 5 guys for an hour or so.
Do the internet if you must but I would stay away from any live showings.
Just my $.02, take it for what it's worth.

I agree with what Cherry said about there are just certain things, whether its right or wrong, in our relationship with our partner, what "does it" for you, or for her.
Mind you, I don`t have no fancy name for what you call it.. I wasn`t sure what snow balling was.. lol You will have to dig a little deeper for that info, but if thats what the two of you get off on, is showing off her tits to other men, thats your business, just like its anybody elses business, what "does it" for them, ya` know?
Its pretty kinky in my book, but I don`t think its abnormal or anything.
If she is going along with your little fantasy, and your both happy about it, to each there own I guess.
It probably makes her feel good to know that you enjoy showing her tits to other men, and you get off on it, from them getting off on it... does that make sense? I personally wouldn`t want my BF`s friends to see pics of my tits, because I have to be around them sometimes, and I wouldn`t feel comfortable with them starring at my breasts the entire night, but thats just me.

[Paula'shusband]

Don't worry, Dan, you are not alone. My wife also has big beautiful tits and I also love for her to show them off whenever possible to other men. I also get her to wear low cut skimpy tops with her tits almost falling out of them, and really enjoy seeing the guys faces when they cop an eyeful. She also goes braless, so her tits swing from side to side when she walks, and you can often see the dark shapes of her big nipples through her tight tops. I think it's great when a guy coming the other way can't take his eyes off her tits as we walk towards him. It really makes me go hard.

Even better, she goes topless on the beach. At first only abroad, but now on local beaches too. It's great when men spot her as they walk along the beach and deliberately take a deviation to come up close to us for a good view of her tits. There's always the chance that someone we know will see her, which gives me a buzz. When abroad she will sometimes even walk around the beach topless, which displays her even more to other men.

I have also put her topless pics on the internet, though she is not that keen on this. However, better then that, I have a selection of topless pics of her as our screensaver. Often when friends come around we have to show them something on the computer. Afterwards I make sure to leave the screen on, so five minutes later, to howls of approval, her tits appear for everyone to see. I must admit, this really turns me on, and she doesn't seem to mind either. Most of our friends have now seen them in all their glory and all, men and women alike, seem impressed!

Unlike you, Dan, I really don't feel guilty about showing off her tits to whoever. It is a big turn on for me, and I suspect for her too (though she will only say she doesn't mind doing it!). So our sex life is pretty good, especially after her tits have been on display! So come on, there must be more of you out there who do the same as us? Tell us all about it.

[Budde]

A little advice, once you've let the Gennie out of the bottle you can't put it back in. You've stated that (My first wife was a risque dresser and she had an affair). So by you asking to take this fantasy farther and farther she may interpit it as your giving her the green light to do more and more to the point where things actually get physical.
Back a while we played a little mind domination game where I had my wife dress so it showed her assets something she normally doesn't do even though she has a very killer body. I would have her go in a store for cigarettes or once she went into a bar dressed in a very revealing top with a pair of shorts on that rode up the crack of her ass and her knee high boots on and ask for change. Needless to say she got the attention of everyone in the bar even the barmaid who asked her why what her hurry was why didn't she stick around for a beer. Ah we think she was hitting on her, she said no thanks my man is waiting outside and pointed to me. At which point I walked through the door and told her to get her ass out on my bike. Well lets just say I'm a little on the menacing side and that was the end of the gawking. We both got a bit of a laugh out of it later on. I knew without a doubt that I could handle any problem like someone who wanted a little more then a look can you? Some times we can take things a bit too far and then harmless fun turns into bad shit real fast.
As far as having your buddies come over and jerk off to her and your other friend see her on your computer you may want to think that over a bit. Hopefully she is always going to be your wife, you fantasy may dwindle and die or just get old but you'll be forever known as the guy who let other guys suck his wife's tit's and jerk off, is that how yo want people to think of you and her there not strangers whom you'll never see again just something to think.

[Luvoral]

I beleive cuckolding is when the wife forces the man to watch her with other men and denies him to join in...Anyway we have friends and then we have friends.Friends in our lifestyle and friends from old neighbors,childhood,etc...I see nothing wrong with your desires,just be carefull as where and who you are around with...

I don't have big boobs,but my H/B loves when most of my body is exposed[boobs,thighs,buns].I also love it and it sounds like she does too...As to her exsposing herself and giving blow jobs,sounds good to me,but what's her opinion?....I consider her an ex and you a voy,I'm both,but prefer to be a voy....Of course with one of group of friends,they have all seen me naked and I've had sex with all of them[men and women],never had them jack-off for me but sucked off everyone of them....

As to public display[that's my opinion],if it turns you both on,then have fun with it,but be careful[as mentioned]...If she/you is willing to go farther and have sex with other's,make sure your ready for that[could be problems],if you both don't have what it takes to jump into that lifestyle...Be sure that her ex side is all that it is...Some that is all,and nothing more..Some women would might like to expose theirselves,but never think of having sex with another person,same for the man,as he just likes to expose his wife's goodies and nothing more,just a turn on.....

Though I love my lifestyle.I don't recommend it to most...Remember the first time someone cums on her tits and in her mouth,she can spit it out,brush her teeth,take a bath,but not wash away the memories.....Enjoy and be Careful

[any14fun]

hey im in with this to. i love the thought of other guys looking at my wifes breasts how ever she doesnt show them. shes 28 with a 40d bust that hang low but round. when she has a low cut top on i always pull it down a little to reveal more. i think i do this so i can see more of them. the thought of other men looking and the hope that other guys might try it on is the real turn on though