PSA: The dangers of unprotected oral sex...

Where and what kind of barriers could be used for females? I know that if I were to put a condom on the male and he go down on a female, that wouldn't stop him from getting it. Right?

[Cherry]

Dental dams. I personally can't say I've ever seen them in my local walmart, but I've seen them in many different online sex toy shops.

[Ann Andriani]

Originally posted by Cherry
Well, the reason dental dams never really "caught on", IMO, is because far too many people are undereducated on the possible dangers of oral sex.

Cherry, you hit the nail on the head here girl! If more people were aware of the real dangers...the reality of it...then they probably would use more protection. Unfortunately, too many people have that non-chalant attitude like you stated here...

"Oh, it's just oral sex. I can't get anything from that."

And I think that Vensanto showed some of his ignorance here as well, (I'm not picking on you, just pointing out that Cherry's statement was correct)...

A guy can get yeast infection in his mouth?? Really? I did not know THAT!!!

Just because you don't know that something can happen, doesn't mean it can't. It's always better to be safe.

Ann

[lorniak]

It's also a cultural thing.
Most guys have come to accept the idea that the cute slippery hole is off-limits to their frankfurter unless they're wearing a condom.

But I don't know how a girl would react if a guy were to pull out a dental dam before giving face. The girl would probably feel awkward and maybe even a little insulted. We have to get past these cultural barriers first.

[lorniak]

It's been quite a while since my last post

I found this:
http://www.brown.edu/Student_Service...h/ssc/dams.htm

But I'm just curious: how many guys give the woman face on casual encounters? I've had two girlfriends so far (first was virgin second had sex with only one guy) and were always eager to eat them out. I've never had "casual sex", but I want to when I get the chance. And I believe sex would be incomplete without oral.

So, Ladies,
1) do you get oral sex during your casual encounters?
2) do you "expect" it from the other party?
3) how would you feel it the guy took out a dental dam?

Thanks

[ddkittyp1mp]

Originally Posted by lorniak

So, Ladies,
1) do you get oral sex during your casual encounters?
2) do you "expect" it from the other party?
3) how would you feel it the guy took out a dental dam?

Thanks

1) I don't have casual encounters anymore since I'm engaged, but I would say that when I did have them I got oral sex about 50% of the time.
2)YES! I definitley expect it, it's my absolute favorite part of sex.
3)I have never had a guy use a dental dam while eating me out...so I don't know about that.........

[LostSerenity]

Originally Posted by lorniak

1) do you get oral sex during your casual encounters?
2) do you "expect" it from the other party?
3) how would you feel it the guy took out a dental dam?

I can't really answer your first two questions because I've never really had casual encounters...but I can answer the third.

I've never been in the position where a guy has taken out a dental dam, but I don't think I'd mind...how is it any different from our expecting a guy to wear a condom?

[MistressSavanna]

1) do you get oral sex during your casual encounters?

I'd say 50% of the time, yes I do.

2) do you "expect" it from the other party?

No, I don't "expect" it, though I probably should....most men do

3) how would you feel it the guy took out a dental dam?

I'd be okay...he's trying to protect himself. However, if it were someone whom I'd been monogamously sleeping with for a while, if he pulled one out I'd probably be a little curious and pissed!!

[davidmn]

I know this isnt directly UNSW related, but would anyone be able to tell me if Basser have internet in the rooms?