Different Sized Boobs

[Chinball_Wizard]

Except for those ladies in the "Entertainment Industry", everyones boobs are at least slightly different. Now the degree of difference can be a problem. My right boob is slightly higher than the left. I'm right handed. The muscles on the right side of my body are slightly more toned and therefore keep things pulled a little tighter. I've tried to work the left side a little harder to help even things out but nature is fighting me on this.
If you get a group of regular women together, non-enhanced, and have them take off their tops(i' sure you would like that) you would be stuned to see the differences.
Self-esteem is a very personal thing and 'Boobs' define us as women in our society. Your wife has seen a lot more bare tits than you. Both of you should visit a cosmetic surgeon. See what her options are. If she feels better about herself, believe me you are the one who will reap the benefits.
If you really think this is all in her head, try to arrange for a weekend at a clothing-optional resort. She might change her mind, or you might change your's.

[Twstychik]

It's not just boobs either! Everything on the human body that there are 2 of and NOT semetrical. Of course some are closer that others and studies have shown the beauty correlates to symetry but perfect symetry does not exist in real natural humans. Sure it can cause problems when bra shopping (I always fit the bigger one so I don't have the squishing-out-the-top factor) but I don't think it's a huge deal since everyone has to deal with it. Oh, my eyes are lop-sided too! LOL

[Budde]

Well ladies I greatly appreciate the input. Chinball_Wizard as far as your suggestions for going to a cosmetic surgeo and going to a clothing optional resort as much as they are creative and very good suggestions I can tell you it aint never gonna happen....lol They only way she would consider any type of medical proceedure is if she had to have it for medical reasons not cosmetic one's. Although she claims the "Big" boob is becasue of fibroids. Whihc I have tried to feel but can't seem to feel them maybe it's just my big paws. One the second suggestion she is way to shy and self concious for anything like that and I'm not sure if going to a place where there are a bunch of bouncing boobs and wangling willies would be a good idea. To many distractions......:rolleyes:

Twstychik I totally agree with you that no one is symetrical etc. I was told that it was becasue of the positon of your heart. That everything closer to the heart received more blood flow therfore resulting in slightly larger sizeed hand's, feet, boobs etc. It really sucks that we let Madison Ave. dictate to us what is "perfect" or good looking etc. but I guess it's just the rule of the almighty dollar. I personally could give two @*!#$ about how perfect someone looks . A person's true beauty and true "sexy" comes from within and it shows through to their "outer" persona. Confidence, self esteem, sexuality etc.
Don't get me wrong she's not totally some timid little mouse who dresses like an old house frau and is a dead fish in bed. Quite the opposite 95% of the time or so but she has her days and her boobs seem to be a point of contention. If they were both the same size everything would fit me better IE: I would look better = I would feel sexier. If that all makes sense. Then she'll frustrate the crap out of me when I suggest she has someone custom make her a bra that fits perfectly so she will feel better. No It's not worth spending the money. ARGGGGGGGGG! I want to choke her..........

I guess it's just gonna be one of those things, thanks again for the input it's greatly appreciated.

[princesa]

Is it common to have uneven breasts? Yes. Can it be a problem for the individual and/or their partner? Depends on the people and the extent of the size difference.

I had more than a cup size difference in my boobs and it was a HUGE deal to me. My Mom is the same way and has always shrugged it off, but I felt deformed and ashamed. As a teen, I had to pad the smaller side back in the day when people made fun of girls for "stuffing a sock" in their bra. I was afraid to hug people, afraid to make out with boys. My Mom sewed a bathing suit for me with a ruffle around the bust to hide my problem.

I swore when I got old enough and had the money, I'd do something about it. A couple of years ago, that day finally arrived. I decided on an implant for the small side and a lift on the big side. I've never regretted it.

However, since it doesn't sound like your wife has as much of a size difference as I had and isn't interested in surgical options, the solution is simple... She can buy a bra with removable pads. Leave the pad in on the small side and take it out on the big side. That will help her feel balanced and "normal" in clothes.

Since she's in a long-term relationship with a guy who loves her the way she is, she shouldn't have to worry too much about her problem when she's unclothed. Before I had my surgery, I used to joke that I could offer a guy the best of both worlds... the small, perky and the big, luscious.

[xjambix]

My left boob is more round and slightly bigger than my right, which is a bit flatter. I am quite self-conscious about it, but not so much that I'll have sex in the dark, etc. Just try and compliment her boobs loads and kiss them and just show her you really love them.

[Budde]

Originally Posted by xjambix

My left boob is more round and slightly bigger than my right, which is a bit flatter. I am quite self-conscious about it, but not so much that I'll have sex in the dark, etc. Just try and compliment her boobs loads and kiss them and just show her you really love them.

Oh she has no problem knowing how much I love them. Especially when I'm licking them and sucking her nipples every chance I get....

In my family we tend to sprout breasts almost overnight. When my
sister hit puberty, only one grew, so she spent a year of middle
school with one side flat and the other side a 'B.' Fortunately the
other one grew in after that.

[SierraJayyy]

A lot of women are self-concious about they're breasts.
I am one of them.
A lot of people that I know also are self-concious about they're breasts.
It's usual, unfortantely.