What makes one a Sex God?

[Ann Andriani]

I thought it might be fun to bring this up again and see what our newer members have to add to it.

Ann

My boyfriend is a sex god to me. He has given me the best orgasms in my life, and is the only person I've been able to ejaculate with. He pays EXTREME attention to my body and how it reacts. How I breath and move, sounds that I make, he's just very intune with me. He knows exactly what to do to make me feel wonderful, because he pays attention, and is more set on gratifying me then himself. He wants to make me feel good. Sex doesn't end until he makes me scream, and is sure, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I'm satisfied. And we have such a strong emotional connection, it makes sex so much more intense and meaningful. He has changed my entire opinion of what sex is.

[Mark & Lin]

Having the ability to lick your eyebrows or breathe through your ears certainly helps. If you can do both, you can pretty much write your own rule book...

Some traits would be confidence without vanity, attention to detail without obsessing on it all, and the ability to perform without going overboard to the point that you're just going through the motions.

[igor]

Originally Posted by lah

can you define what it is first?

I can't tell you - I'd have to show you

[Budde]

"What makes one a Sex God?" How about ego? There have to latterly millions of guys in this world who consider themselves Sex Gods or sex machines etc. fueled entirely by their own ego. Truth be known if they were rated "professionally" and no I don't mean by a bunch of hookers most would fall in to the "average" category.

I personally feel it should be more about one's partner then about one's self and what level is truly reached in more cases then not the respective partner reciprocates. Resulting in both people being happy and satisfied.

Is a little bit of ego a good thing yeah sure why not be a little proud knowing you take care of business but when that ego grows or gets in the way of who you truly are or your level of caring for your partners and his or her well being and satisfaction then you've now reached the level of egomaniacal JACKASS #1.

I think it health for a relationship for all of us every no and then to ask our self honestly am I really taking care of his /her needs as well as my own?

Couldn't hoit!

[CoJon]

Originally Posted by Cherry

Sex God (or Godess) status, to me, has nothing to do with how many orgasms you are capable of giving your partner. It's got more to do with taking the time to satisfy your partner emotionally, as well as sexually. For me, I'm more deeply satisfied if my emotional needs are met. Seriously, if I had to choose between "great sex and no emotional satisfaction" and "dull sex and total emotional satisfaction", I'd give up great sex and stick with my emotional needs.

Do I condier myself a sex godess? Maybe. But that's only because I know that I satisfy my partner emotionally as well as sexually. Do I take pride in knowing that I satisfy her, sexually? Of course I do. But I also take pride in knowing that I make her happy by giving her what she craves in our relationship. I'm there to hold her when she cries. I'm there to laugh with her when she finds something funny. I'm there to listen when she's frustrated with work or her familly. I'm there to rub her feet when she's tired and sore. I'm there to take care of her when she's sick. Those things make me just as proud as knowing I can make her scream like a girl when nobody else could. But it's all tied into me showing her how I feel about her. It's all just me expressing my love for this wonderful person I happened to stumble across, purly by chance.

I would never have considered calling myself "a sex god." But after reading what you wrote about satisfying your partner emotionally, I think I've got at least that part of the requirements covered. I'm still working on the other half, but it's so very hard for me to achieve right now in a home with four adults, three kids, and no doors to your bedroom...

Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for posting this, Cherry. It boosted my spirits to read what you wrote, put in just the right way. I can certainly relate to what you wrote about preferring emotional satisfaction over sexual, if you had to make a choice. And after thinking about how I feel, I can lift my head up knowing that I strive to give that very same kind of satisfaction to my wife.

The opportunity to try and get her to scream like a girl will just have to wait until we move into a new place--with shades on the bedroom windows and a heavy lock on the door. ;-)

[CoJon]

I just had to share my fortunate discovery somewhere, and this thread is the first appropriate thread that I've previously encountered and which I re-encountered today. So here it is:

I was just doing some curious searching, and I seem to have hit the jackpot for a curious and admittedly inexperienced and still uneducated guy like me. What I found is entitled, "The Female Orgasm Black Book," and it is almost precisely what I've been hoping to find, perhaps ever since I first signed onto 'All Sex Advice,' and maybe before that.

It offers what guys like me--what many guys, I suspect--need, because although I have managed to learn through perseverence (and certainly luck) how to bring my significant other to orgasm, I can't seem to give her this blessed gift every time I would like; I couldn't make her come whenever I wanted to, or even with any consistency, unless she were as committed to making it happen as I was. But this didn't seem fair; she could get me off 99 out of 100 times, and I was unable to keep up and do my share; I've given her maybe 20 orgasms to the last 100 she's given me.

What I needed was a plan, and I found one, here: http://www.scribd.com/doc/4014366/Th...asm-Black-Book.
Of course, this is only one set of instructions I happened to find at one particular website. But it is a good plan nonetheless--and available online, and free, to boot!--and in the one chance I had to try it so far, Amy responded more enthusiastically (read, "orgasmically") than I have ever seen her respond before, and I didn't manage to follow the steps I had tried to memorize as they are laid out in the book; she was reluctant to let me go down on her because she had not showered for a while, while I took one as soon as I got home from work. Still, she eventually relented, and I was able to practice the steps to bringing her to the brink of orgasm, what might have been the first of of three, if I had been able to follow the plan through to its conclusion. (The "plan" in the book is tagged with the phrase, "Three before me.") Instead, however, she stopped me because she prefers to climax during intercourse. I might have insisted on finishing her off and giving her a second and third orgasm if I had not been so anxious to appease both her and my own libido at that moment.

When anyone else has a chance to read this, I'd like to know what you think.

[Luvoral]

I agree with many opinion here.I mostly feel that being cherished and cherishing can create a godess.You make each other feel sexy and emotional feelings are most important....Their charm that warms your heart and makes you melt by even a little touch,smile or a loving hug.Their confidence in you,knowing who you are,when you are sad or happy...Just thinking of them can make you remember their scent..Their nakeness can make you feel in heaven...The beauty is in their eyes!!!