Is This My Crisis ?

[Chinball_Wizard]

The saga continues. The other day I was talking with this kids mother and she asked me what I was doing on a certain weekend. I knew I was free all weekends for the forseeable future, so I said, nothing.
Well it turns out that his school is having some sort of a parents weekend. His father isn't interested in going. He never goes anywhere. So he sugested to his mother that she ask me to go along. So she wouldn't feel out of place and alone. Now I'm sort of stuck.
She knows my social life has no life, so trying to make an excuse now will be difficult.
Ideas anyone?
This kid is using his head. Both of them.

[Budde]

Originally posted by Chinball_Wizard
The saga continues. The other day I was talking with this kids mother and she asked me what I was doing on a certain weekend. I knew I was free all weekends for the forseeable future, so I said, nothing.
Well it turns out that his school is having some sort of a parents weekend. His father isn't interested in going. He never goes anywhere. So he sugested to his mother that she ask me to go along. So she wouldn't feel out of place and alone. Now I'm sort of stuck.
She knows my social life has no life, so trying to make an excuse now will be difficult.
Ideas anyone?
This kid is using his head. Both of them.

Bow out gracefully or just plain lie your ass off..... lol Listen as much as I am a big fan of sexual adventures and wouldn't mind banging a girl this kids age (that is if my wife would let me which she wouldn't ..... ) You need to distance yourself from this thing as others have said. If you value your friendship with his mom which it sounds like you do then you need to keep your distance form him so as not to tempt yourself and let him try and work on you. Your partially wrong this kid is ONLY thinking with his penis. Unless your totally off base which I doubt you are his little brushing his hand on your ass thing and all the talk about how good you look etc. ain't no coincidence. He wants to get his dick wet and isn't thinking at all about the ramifications of what the fall out will be. Just flip the roles. How would you feel if it was your son and your friend. I bet you would want to kill her a few times over would you not?

Just tell her you forgot that you had something to do or just play sick what ever you come up with even if it pisses her off a little is far better then putting yourself in a situation that could be potentially a real cluster fuck for all involved.....

[Chinball_Wizard]

This just keeps getting better and better. I just found out, by accident I'm sure, that my friend is having a get-together this weekend. The person who mentioned it assumed I had been invited. I quickly made up an excuse as to why I wasn't going to be there, The truth is I hadn't been invited. Actually she hasn't spoken to me since I begged off going to her son's parents weekend awhile back. Take a note, this is what doing the right thing gets you. In retrospect, I should have fucked the son, gone to the weekend, seduced her and given the husband a blow-job for good measure. That is if I could have gotten him off the couch long enough to get his pants down. God, aren't the holidays wonderful?:rolleyes:

[Evle]

Chinball;
You have understadable concerns. Still... I say give him, and yourself, an experience . If you're concerned about it getting around, talk to him about it, ask him to please not mention names or get into specifics to his friends. If he cares for you, this shouldn't be too difficult for him. Now if he calls... invite him over... . Make it real naughty, invite him over midmorning and screw his brains out all day with the sun shining in! Give the boy a story for when he returns to school and his friends start ragging on him for not going to South Padre Island, Daytona or Cabo. Picture him saying.... "Oh yeah? Well I spent hours having sex with a beautiful goddess who's forgotten more about pleasing a man than all your college girls put together have ever figgured out!"
Evle

[paphia]

I have to agree at this point... go for it. His mom got mad because you felt uncomfortable going to parent's weekend with her and has since had parties you haven't been invited to. She should be mad at her lazy husband but instead directed it at you. Sounds like she's not a friend worth having.

The kid still has the hots for you. Go to lunch together! Go to dinner. See a movie and put your hand on his leg in the car. See what happens. You obviously are still getting a thrill out of this. At this point I see no harm in it.

As for him talking -- assuming the worst, what will happen? You'll feel foolish? You'll be ostracized from your peer group? Parents will start warning their 20-something year old sons to stay away from hot women if they know what's good for them? LOL. Just decide if you can live with the consequences. Or arrange things in such a way that there are no witnesses and it's his word vs. yours and hopefully there will be enough doubt cast on the situation that even if he does blab, people will just speculate and no real harm is done.

Anyway, be sure to have a good time and at this point just live without regrets since you're regretting your earlier approach. Life is too short for perpetual indecision!

Whooo Hooo!!! You go girl... I hope he gets an education, you get much pleasure and it all ends well...

So are you gonna do it again??

YAY! I've followed this thread but havent posted yet, and what better time than to say congrats on getting what you want!

If you don't go for it and take life by the horns, who knows what you'll miss out on. I found the love of my life by taking a chance, and we also have an age difference. Now, not saying you and this strapping young lad are going to live on happily ever after, but still, its a possibility you could have missed out on. If all you ever have with him is hot, sweaty, wild sex, and thats all you ever want, thats STILL something you could have missed out. Im so glad you took that chance and it turned out GREAT! Congrats again and I hope things continue to go well!

Congrats! I'm glad it went so well

[Chinball_Wizard]

I think all things considered, things worked out well. I did ask him if he had ever made love before, naturally he said yes. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. It wasn't exactly a scene out of a romance novel. He hadn't brought a condom with him, I don't know what his plan was, so I gave him one of mine. I didn't want to seem like I was running the show so I waited while he tried to get it on. It seemed to be a struggle in the dark. The stress was more than he could take, he came. It took a couple of minutes to get him to stop apologizing and clean up the mess. After we turned the lights on it was discovered that he was trying to roll the condom on inside out. After a good laugh and somemore wonderful foreplay my young man was ready again. This time I took charge of the condom as well as entry. I always liked being on top.
Under the circumstances I wasn't looking for fireworks, this was about him. We took our time and I think he learned that getting there can be more fun than arriving at the destination.
As far as doing it again, I know I'm more than willing, and he knows he can call me if he wants to. I made it clear that booty calls were out. He could call and make a date.
Thanks again to everyone who gave their advice. The rest of Dannys education is going to stay private.

[XStripper777]

Chinball, I just read this thread for the first time. I was soooo happy at the end, to see that you did finally sleep with this man. I'm actually proud of you. If his mom would drop you like a hat just for deciding not to go with her, then she probably wasn't worth keeping. On the other hand, if she was a great friend, and just happened to know that something was goin on with you and her son, I apologize for saying such hateful things. However, she should have realized that you were both consenting adults, and if I were her, I'd have been happy for you that you are still sexy enough to pick up young college men, and I'd have been happy for him as well, for being able to pick up mature, beautiful women. If I'd have been his mom, I'd have been behind both of you all the way!

I'm glad you finally saw the reality of it, that you were both adults who were interested in one another... and went for it. Good for you!!

Do you still see this man on occasion? It would be neat to find out that the two of you got married or something, haha! If you still hang around, would you mind updating us?