Not Anal sex, but general 'ass' stimulation

[Chinball_Wizard]

I know you are looking for answers from men, but, It sounds to me likr things are sort of on the right track. If he is initiating any type of stimulation back there then he is thinking about it.
Most men are hung up on anal play because it has some homosexual implications. As long as they'er the ones doing the penetrating, it's OK. But the second you touch their ass, no matter how good it feels, all they think is now they are the submissive one.
My advise, don't rush things. Let him keep working his way towards it. Maybe you could just graze it once and a while. By accident of course, and note his reaction. The shower is always a good place. Lots of slippery soap, so be careful.
Once he does find out how much pleasure is back there for him, you'll be trimming those nails and shopping for a strapon.

Sounds to me like he is desperate for anal stimulation but cant get his head round the fact that a man can like it without being labelled as gay!!!

Personally there is little pleasure in any kind of ass play that is centred on the buttocks. Massage is nice but not overtly sexual. Having the prostate (male g spot) massaged from the outside is VERY nice IF you can do it - considerable pressure on the perineum - the space betwen the back of the scrotum and the rectum - if you think a female g spot is hard to find you will need a map to find a mans!! But I wouldnt call this ass play.

A man hasnt lived til he has come whilst having his g spot massaged from the inside!!!! If he wants to pretend that he doesnt like ass penetration then why not play along with his game until he is able to own up to himself that it is fun and this it is what he wants.

Or maybe the question you are really asking is for yourself - is it ok fo me to do this?? Of course it is!!!!!!

[Budde]

Well weather it be direct anal penetration or even just a simple slap on the ass my wife knows it's a sure fires way to get my motor running. She on the other hand is not as enthused as I am but once her juices start flowing she loves having her ass played with. So your definitely on to something there Mook.

You might want to consider a rim job. If the thought of it kinda sleeve's you out then try it with a dental dam. Anal stimulation for a guy is a whole new frontier. It doesn't imply any sort of sexual preference change etc. It's just plain stimulation and thats definitely a good thing.

[Mook]

Lol...thanks for the responses folks! My boy and I joke about anal play a lot. I really don't doubt we'd adventure through that area - but I do not seeing it happening any time soon.

However, as I've learned - we're making small movements that are making things super erotic. I just cannot get over how HOT it was for me to have his whole arm between my legs, hand spread across my ass cheeks (so they were spread a bit) and his arm wisping past my clit. Wooot - so HOT!

I often try messing with his perenium while giving oral sex. I can always feel his ejaculate come from way down there - kind of pushes it's way out and I feel it with my finger. It was said to put a decent amount of pressure on it...I actually haven't tried that 'move' lately...so perhaps we'll try 'er again!

I think his whole "hand through legs and near asshole" moevement was so arousing to me was because it was so close to a 'taboo' spot...like it was 'so wrong' but so amazing! Hence I say I can see it happening at one point or another.

Thanks for all your thoughts!

Mook