Is it called snowballing?

When a girl wants to play around with her BF`s cum in her mouth with him?
I have always wanted to try this, but he is freaked out on tasting his own cum, and says that it does nothing for him sexually.
I thought it would be fun to have his cum in my mouth, and just play around with his tongue back and forth a little. It just seems like a big turn on to me. What can I do, to get him to mellow out and try something new?
I`m sure that he gets turned on, when I swallow his cum, or he squirts it on my stomach, ya` know?
Yes, he is the one, who is also freaked about me slipping a finger in his ass.

Yes, that's snowballing.

I am a guy who is very turned on by it and I know there are plenty of others as well. Like your BF, I was freaked out by tasting cum at first but it's something that goes away after doing it a couple of times.

To get him to mellow out and maybe try it, let him know first of all that you won't think it "gay" that he does it. Make sure he knows that it doesn't taste bad, and it probably would be easier to get him to taste a small amount at first rather than a moutful of it.

Hope that helps and let us know how it goes.

Originally posted by browneyed gal
When a girl wants to play around with her BF`s cum in her mouth with him?
I have always wanted to try this, but he is freaked out on tasting his own cum, and says that it does nothing for him sexually.
I thought it would be fun to have his cum in my mouth, and just play around with his tongue back and forth a little. It just seems like a big turn on to me. What can I do, to get him to mellow out and try something new?
I`m sure that he gets turned on, when I swallow his cum, or he squirts it on my stomach, ya` know?
Yes, he is the one, who is also freaked about me slipping a finger in his ass.

[Budde]

Yup thats what they call it and I personally love it when my wife does it to me. It drives me crazy and just fuels the fires of passion. She has done it to me on more then one occasion and with a fee hand has played with my cock which gets hard again with in a few minutes if that. She says it's one of the reasons why she does it to me plus she knows I love it when she does it. If he is so opposed to you at least trying it then just ask him straight up. It's OK for me to have your cum in my mouth but not in yours? ell then me might have to re-think the blowjob policy around here. When you get right down to it. It's a completely fair request. I've posted a some what similar response to a poster who wanted to know how he could talk his g/f in to letting him have anal sex with her. I suggested he go out and get a dildo approx. the same size as he was and a tube of KY and say OK lets re-think the anal sex thing and hand her the dildo and the KY and say OK you go first. Sorry but I'm from the school of whats fair for one is for the other.

The bottom line is just tell him how much it would excite you and turn you on if he would be willing to at least give it a try. If he concedes to a try and then he says no more OK then you should abide by his wishes.

Good Luck...

Thanks!
I will get him in the heat of the moment, and ask him if he would try it.
I was thinking about this yesterday, and thought that the reason he didn`t think it was sexual, was because it was AFTER the moment, ya` know? Hell, he`s done by then and ready to go eat. :rolleyes:

[Budde]

Originally posted by browneyed gal
Thanks!
I will get him in the heat of the moment, and ask him if he would try it.
I was thinking about this yesterday, and thought that the reason he didn`t think it was sexual, was because it was AFTER the moment, ya` know? Hell, he`s done by then and ready to go eat. :rolleyes:

You couldn't be more right on the money. "Usually" once a guy cums thats it game over so you might have an idea there. Also you mentioned he has an aversion to you putting a finger in his ass. All I can say is he has no idea what he's missing. Combine the two and he would melt like butta..........

[CoJon]

Originally Posted by Budde

I've posted a some what similar response to a poster who wanted to know how he could talk his g/f in to letting him have anal sex with her. I suggested he go out and get a dildo approx. the same size as he was and a tube of KY and say OK lets re-think the anal sex thing and hand her the dildo and the KY and say OK you go first. Sorry but I'm from the school of whats fair for one is for the other.

I think that's a great philosophy, Budde. I know I'd think twice about trying anal sex with my wife if she said, "OK. You go first." :p Heck, I know plenty of guys that would think twice about it then--for once in their lives!!

CJon

It's not really considered "snowballing" but I fantasize about kissing her after I've made her orgasm orally. So far, no deal, she's adimately opposed. Any tips for making this happen?