My BF jacked off in front of me....

[browneyed girl]

as I watched. I had my dildo on my clit, but couldn`t relax enough to have an orgasm together, so I had to ask him to leave the room, and with the thoughts of him jacking off, I was able to cum too.
I wish I could cum the same time he did. That would be good.

Sounds like you're just a bit self-conscious, which should diminish in time. Are you having sex with this guy? Everything OK except can't MB in front of him? What if you "do" each other to start with?

[browneyed girl]

Yeah.... I think I am a bit self consious when it comes to masturbating by myself in front of him. Now, if we masturbate together, I`m fine with that, but to let me do it alone.. I have problems.

[Vensanto]

We've done this before. Try making it a bit naughtier? Last week my wife and I did it this way. She laid on the bed with her head towards the foot and had a vibrator on her clit. I stradled her head and she was licking my balls as I slowly jerked off. As she built up, I was able to stop and start to match her and was able to do a bit of oral as well. When she came I came. You can have him blow his load on you for that naughty element! Anyways, that's how we do it. Up close & personal.

[mardione]

my partner doesn't like to fuck as much as she likes to see me wank and come all over her.

it does make me wonder if i am not good in the sack, she does not like to talk about it, which does not help. But the look on her face when i wank and cum makes me think that she does not need full sex as much as i like to

[Budde]

I once had a girlfriend who said she wanted me to help fulfil a little fetish of hers. She asked me to stand in the big walk in closet in her bedroom that had louvered doors and jerk off to her masturbating herself while she lay on the bed. She used her fingers then she pulled out this big didlo and fucked herself. When I cam (all over her carpet) I stepped out of the closet and she gasped and said OH my who are you! what are yo doing with your cock in your hand, your naked! So of course I figured that was my clue to play along so I improvised and told her all sorts of stuff like I had been watching her do this for months from across the way and decided to join her bla bla bla. So I thought this was just a one time thing, nope we sued to have to do it at least several times a month. I got tired of coming in and out of the closet so I started putting different spins on it. I once pretended to hid under the kitchen table as she played with her self right in front of me. After her little acting out session she would finger herself in front of my very willingly in between fuck session to start her self going again. Try doing it with the lights out or turned down low and have him stand off a litle so he is more of a siloette.

[keepquiet]

I was always kind of repulsed by the thought of a guy jacking off - I mean, I knew they do it constanlty, I just didn't want to be a part of it or ever see it. But the other night we were playing with my vibrator during sex. When he started touching himself while I used my dildo, I was incredibly turned on! I couldn't get my eyes off his hand on his cock. It was so hot, I couldn't believe it.

I would definatly love to try things mentioned on this thread. I've found something new and unexpected that totally turns me on.

[LostSerenity]

You'd be surprised once you start trying new things. I've tried many things now that I told myself I'd never do. With the right person and comfort level many things are possible. I used to find men jerking off unappealing too, but now I think it's kind of a turn on to see my boyfriend touching himself. We tried masturbating together after I read this post, we were both watching a porn together and touching ourselves...then things proceeded to the bedroom. I gotta be honest the whole thing was pretty erotic

[Ann Andriani]

I think that mutual masturbation is a great night of sex!

Ann