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#1
10-31-2007, 01:20 AM
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Hey, I'm alex. I'm new here... So here's my question- how do you get a girl to agree to ass play? By ass play, I mean the guy is recieving. A while ago, I saw pictures of girls doing guys in the ass w/ various objects, and was turned on by it. (Blah blah I'm not gay, its only hot if a GIRL is giving it). I've been experimenting with this kind of play by myself, and I really like it. I wanted to get my girlfriend involved, but she was not into the idea. She was actually really disgusted. She said I was a freak (kind of in a joking way), and didn't want to talk about it anymore. Needless to say, I was very saddened by her response. I like what I like, and I don't think I'm a freak. How can I warm her up to the idea? I'm considering getting down on my knees and begging her at this point.  |
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#2
10-31-2007, 03:33 AM
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What a mean girlfriend. She should realize how lucky she is. I'd give anything for my b/f to beg me to put things up his ass. He lets me do it, but he's not like crazy about it or anything. To be honest, I don't know if your g/f is ever gonna be into the idea of anal play. It sounds like she's really against it. BUT don't despair. Maybe she was just freaked when you sprung the topic on her. You should try bringing it up again. Say "I know you arent excited about it but..." then tell her that you really like it, and it really turns you on, and maybe she could at least think about it, or at the very least not be so freakin mean about it. She might come around, if for nothing other than to humor you. after all, even if it doesn't turn her on, its not hugely inconvinient for her to stick something in you every now and then. AND, on another note, purely out of my own curiosity; do you cum when you put things up your ass? Just curious... |
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10-31-2007, 03:50 PM
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My ex and I started from point A and worked ourselves to point B. I mean, I started on him by inserting just a finger, and only with what he was comfortable with, until we eventually got into dildos. I found it to be a big turn on, and he enjoyed it as well. Maybe chose the same time that you are giving her anal. Stop, and tell her that,"its her turn."  |
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#4
10-31-2007, 10:46 PM
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Brown eyed girl- Thanks for the advice. I dont really give her anal, so I don't know if that will work. (she doesn't like anal, whether she's giving or recieving). Good idea about working up to it, though. Thanks. AndieCandy- Thanks, for your advice too. I think I'm going to bring it up again, and give her some time to think about it. Maybe I'll show her some kind of informational website, or something. About your little question- I don't think its really any of your bussiness whether I come when I put things in my ass... but since I'm in a very sexually open mood right now, I'll tell you that yes, I can ussually make my self come when I put things in my ass. ;-) If I can't get off from playing with my prostate alone (which I almost always can, b/c it feels amazing), then I just jerk myself off manually. |
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11-10-2007, 05:55 AM
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Well consider yourself lucky. I am you 20 years from now. Weve done it twice. Both times after a prolonged begging and pleading and convincing session. And then she disliked it so much it was barely worth it. I love getting fucked with a strapon, she hates it. It's dirty, weird and wrong. She will do it if I grovel enough but I have a hard time groveling that much... You have to decide if this is something you want to give up for her. If it is OK. then forget about it Unless that is she decides soon that it does sound like fun after all. my sugesstion is to move one and find someone you are more compatible with. |
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#6
12-12-2007, 10:02 PM
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Wow! I'm impressed with how open you are. It's really inspiring to see someone who wants what they want, and aren't afraid to ask about it. Often, people dislike what they don't understand. Try explaining why you like it, and how it makes you feel. Talk to her about the prostate and whatever else you enjoy to get her involved. Of course, if she's going to be close-minded and (even jokingly) call you a freak, perhaps you should also discuss how that made you uncomfortable. Try to get her to open up about some of her more well hidden fantasies too! everyone is more likely to co-operate with something when they get something in return. I think I posted this somewhere else too... Perhaps using preventative measures, like condoms, rubber gloves and other such items would help her to feel more comfortable with the idea. |
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#7
08-21-2008, 06:58 PM
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I believe that the best way to get her involved is to show her how good it feels. Try eating her ass softly and working in gently with your finger without penetration. After many sessions of this she will either HATE it or be very curious as to why you do not go further. If she does ask you to go further, be gentle and make sure it feels good...do not rush or "bang" her like it were her pussy. After she gets a taste for the good of anal play you can once again tell her that is the same thing you would like her to do on you. However, if she simply doesnt like it AT ALL. My suggestion is what 427v8 recommends. Move on... lifetime commitments are for well...a lifetime. Make sure you are both compatible.
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#8
08-22-2008, 08:48 AM
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