Is it degrading to cum on your partner's face?

[Xzilalnx2]

Is it degrading to men /or/ women ( depending on sexual orientation ) if a man cums on your face?

[PhillipNoone]

No . . . absolutely not. . . Unless you make it that way. If both people had no intent to be degraded or intent to degrade then there is nothing wrong. Its more of a pride thing rather than something degrading. In my opinion its just looks nice.

And i had cum on my face. And swallowed it. And im a guy. And my wife is a woman. Nothing degrading about that. And to be more specific it was my own cum.

[Twstychik]

I think this is something that is totally individual. I don't personally find it degrading per say but it's not something I particularly enjoy.

[XStripper777]

I think that TOTALLY depends on how it is done. If my husband just were to do it without making sure I didn't mind first, or to do it and then laugh about it or something, hell yea, it'd feel degrading. But, if he were to make sure I didn't mind first, and did with with a respectful attitude, it wouldn't feel like that at all. I think that is not only based on the individual, but based also on the individual experience.

Overall no. To me it is but it is personal.

I think porn has turned into something very degrading and very very few of what I've seen do the girl seem to even remotely enjoy it.

I don't want to see my wife in that light.

Make any sense?

[XStripper777]

Originally Posted by splithead

Overall no. To me it is but it is personal.

I think porn has turned into something very degrading and very very few of what I've seen do the girl seem to even remotely enjoy it.

I don't want to see my wife in that light.

Make any sense?

That makes complete sense to me! I notice that many pornos have a way of making sex look extremely degrading to women... I'm sure that many men like that sort of thing, but many more men don't. Or perhaps they are like because it is supposed to be "fantasy"... and I must admit that it's been my fantasy to be used as a man's sex toy before, lol. Of course, I certainly wouldn't want to be treated that way all the time. I don't know why the producers of pornos choose to make them the way they are, but I'm sure there's a good reason for it.

However, like you said, I can't imagine that Jody would want to see his wife being treated like that... nor would I want to be treated like that all the time. So, I suppose it goes back to what I said about it being different with each situation. If a man were doing that to me in order to degrade me (when it's not my wish to be humiliated), it would not only feel degrading to me, but it would certainly hurt my feelings as well. If he were doing it to humiliate me while we were in a roleplay or S&M type situation... that would be different, and acceptable. And, of course, if it were done in a respectable way, I wouldn't be offended. I guess there are just too many situations in which that could be seen as a disrespectful thing to do... but I personally wouldn't be sleeping with a guy that I couldn't trust to be respectful to me.

I have to compliment you on what you said, though. When I read that you wouldn't want to see your wife in that light, I was touched. That's very sweet of you... and you obviously have much respect and love for your wife. Good for you, and good for her!!

[jillian13]

in a way i find it degrading, but that's why i like it i guess. i like to feel degraded and used (of course i know my boyfriend doesn't actually feel that way about me). it's one of those you like it or you don't kinda things i guess.

[Singingpirate28]

I agree with most of the posts above. To do anything to someone that they don't want to do or aren't into is degrading. But it is a personal choice. Some women really love cum on their face, others don't but put up with it to please their partners....some really hate it. I've always found that asking the woman's opinion on cum in general is the best way to go. If she's not a fan at all then you have your answer. If she is a fan, ask her if she's ever been cummed on and if she likes it. Then ask where she likes to be cummed on. You'll have your answer from that and then game on.

I've also found asking someone what they are NOT into early in the relationship is better than asking them what they are into. People will tell you what they AREN'T into much more easily than admitting a turn on or fetish. Once you know what they AREN'T into, you have an idea of what is game on for you to try.

A woman I have been text messenging naughty texts with begs me to cum on her face after she has sucked me for a while. Obviously if I ever have sex with this woman, I know what she likes...

As it's been said a million times.....ask your partner questions, communicate, communicate, communicate..... If she doesn't want cum on her face, then it's degrading....if she likes it.....bombs away. All relative