The Thrill of Getting Caught

[LostSerenity]

Lately my boyfriend and I have been playing around with the idea of having sex in public. I think it might be kind of exciting. However as thrilling as it might be to have the possibilty of getting caught, neither of us actually wants to get caught. So anyway, my point is I was wondering if anybody has advice for a fairly descreet place to try it. Thanks

[Mark & Lin]

Be very careful here. If you're into exhibitionism, might I suggest an on-premise swing club. There will be people there to watch you, and you'll run no risk of being arrested with your pants down, so to speak.

If you aren't into open exhibitionism and are just seeking the thrill of 'possibly being caught without actually being caught,' I'll warn you that eventually, you WILL be caught. (Yes, we've been caught, but never arrested - we were caught by another couple with something similar on their minds.) Witness all of the video clips you see online of people being caught - you just know that for every clip you see, there are probably 100 that haven't made it online yet.

Please do yourselves a favor if you decide to pursue this - choose a place where there are no kids. Nothing will get you arrested faster than being caught by an angry parent. One girl we know gets her biggest thrill out of having sex on the open deck of a boat that's speeding around in a lake. She loves to have the driver 'buzz' adults in other boats or on shore while she's on top of her man. They stay far enough away from people that they can't see exactly what's going on, but get close enough that they just have to wonder.

Whatever you do, just be careful. Depending on where you are, getting caught by the police might be the least of your worries. There are a lot of strange people out there - some of which might see your activities as an invitation to join in whether you want them too or not. Be very careful.

[ddkittyp1mp]

Me and my boyfriend have had sex in alot of public places (including a park in broad daylight a block away from the police station...definitley NOT safe) . We have sex on our front porch, which is facing a very busy state highway in the Chicago area, and the speed limit is pretty high, so the drivers can see us but not gawk. But we've found that the "safest" place for us is out on our back porch at night time. We only have one neighbor, and a pretty long driveway, so if the cops do happen to come we can run into the house and not answer the door. You could also try having sex with your curtains open, or in a car in a secluded place. I personally like having exhibitionist sex on my own property though, because you have alot better chance of getting away with it.

[LostSerenity]

Originally Posted by Mark & Lin

There are a lot of strange people out there - some of which might see your activities as an invitation to join in whether you want them too or not. Be very careful.

Thanks, I didn't really think of that, but I guess you're right. We'll keep that in mind. As for the swing clubs, I don't think we're quite ready for that yet lol. But thanks for the advice

[Budde]

An ex-girlfriend of mine used to love having sex out doors and in places where there was a possibility of getting caught. We had sex in her office numerous times, on the conference table in the board room down the hall from her office when she was working late and supposedly alone. We thing the cleaning lady got an eye full one night. We had sex on the beach at her parents shore house about 20 yards from the house one night. We could hear the people in the house but there was no way anyone could see us unless they walked right up to the wall and looked straight down, highly unlikely her folks would do that after a few martini's. We had sex in rest area's and in the cab of my truck and in her car in more then one parking lot.

With another old g/f a blow job in her car or mine was as common as turning on the radio weather it was day or night and we also had sex on her boat while anchored in the bay. We were out of sight of other boaters as it was a week day and it wasn't busy at all and plus we were going at it on the floor of the boat. The one thing we forgot was the cars traveling over the bay bridge. We kind of got the message when we hear d all the horns honking... lol only slowed us down a little.
having sex with the possibility of getting caught definitely heightens the excitement at least in my O/P but as others have said be cautious about it. Maybe do a little drive by or recon work before hand to see if it's a safe spot.

[LostSerenity]

Well we did it. There's a Country Club where we live and it's always abandoned at night, plus it's a nice looking place overlooking the water. So we figured that was a decent safe place to give it a try and not actually get caught. It was pretty exciting and all went well, thanks for the advice everyone

[Mark & Lin]

Lin actually suggested to me that she'd like to try sex in our back yard. I know that sounds pretty tame, but it's a huge step for her - especially when you consider that we have a chain link fence that you can see right through. Now all we need is some warm weather - it's too flippin cold outside right now...

[LostSerenity]

Lol yeah we had the same problem. It's getting pretty warm out around here now though. The back yard actually seems to be a popular choice for people, at least you know you're safe there. Have fun

[Budde]

My wife and I before we were married did it on the front porch of my old house. It sat back off the road about 300 plus feet and there were a lot of big pines surrounding the house but it was on a very busy road and I didn't realise it till later on that week that with the lights on inside the house it sort of back lit the porch. I pulled in late one night and could tell she was sitting on the swing in a bikini top from the road Oops!.....

[urfina]

Originally Posted by ddkittyp1mp

You could also try having sex with your curtains open

Did anyone else try it? I wonder if we can get in trouble if we do it in home with our curtains open.
Or, as long as we are inside our home, we cannot get in trouble?

Does anyone has experience with it?