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04-19-2008, 02:12 PM
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My boyfriend has a problem (for lack of a better word). He can't cum from oral. He has no problem cuming during intercourse, or masturbating, or when I'm giving him a hand-job, but for some reason he can't reach an orgasm from a blow-job. I know it's not me because he's gotten oral from other girls before me and only one of them has gotten him to cum once, he said she spent over an hour to do so. He said it feels great when I give him oral, and he gets really close, but for some reason he just can't get himself to reach climax. He gets over-sensitive sometimes, so I don't know if it's just a mental block or a physical thing.  But anyway I was wondering if anybody had some advice or methods for a tricky guy. Any help is appreciated.
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04-20-2008, 02:01 AM
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Well not knowing your blowjob technique per-say weather your just sucking on him and moving up and down etc. or using your hands as well. It's very common for a woman to stoke a guys cock while giving him head and actually jerk him off while she's sucking so you mentioned he gets off from a hand job so maybe this might work. You might be on to something when you say he's too tense or is just thinking about it too much. An old g/f of mine used to every once in a while suck my cock when I was a sleep. Not because I couldn't cum but it was just something she used to like to surprise me with. So maybe give that a try and see how it works
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04-20-2008, 02:05 PM
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04-20-2008, 04:17 PM
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Don't stress over this. Some guys just don't orgasm that way. It's nothing personal. It's nothing that you're doing or not doing, it's just the way he is. Think about your own body. You know that there are some things that will make you orgasm, and there are some things that won't. It's not the person doing the touching - it's where and how you're being touched. A man's body is no different. The muscles in your mouth are different from the muscles in your vagina, which are different from the muscles in your anus. Different things just feel different. With some men, oral just doesn't hit the right places on his penis, or doesn't put the right kind/amount of pressure he needs to climax. Again, there's nothing wrong with either of you. Everybody is different. We all have little quirks, and this happens to be one of his. |
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05-06-2008, 08:30 AM
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Maybe he's afraid to cum in your mouth because he's afraid it might offend you. If you're ok with him doing that, let him know, especially at the time. If you're not ok with him doing that, talk about it, and come to some arrangement for when the time comes. Otherwise, just ask him why he thinks he doesn't cum. Let him know that you want him to, and that you want to help. If he has a mental block, he's more likely to share it with you if he knows you want him to cum. |
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05-18-2008, 11:23 PM
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Try talking dirty in between blowing him...that might push him over the edge! Good Luck! |
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05-19-2008, 10:43 AM
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06-01-2008, 04:08 AM
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Hey, I just wanted to echo what somebody else said - some guys can't cum from oral. My boyfriend is the same way. I've tried doing it for over an hour and he still can't cum; none of his exes have been able to get him there, either. His dick gets really sensitive when he orgasms, to the point that he has trouble cleaning up because when he touches his head with the toilet paper it's almost too much. Everybody is different. Don't blame yourself. - C |
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10-21-2008, 05:31 AM
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In my experience this is because of two reasons: 1. He can't relax. Believe it or not but just because his dick is in your mouth doesnt mean HE can't get stage fright. 2. You arn't doing it with enough passion and control to make him forget about his stage fright. Women seem to think that just because your down there bobbing your head up and down that that is enough but then that's like saying guys who just 'insert' and thrust till there done know what their doing. |
