Ladies does masturbation curb your sexual appetite

[Budde]

The other day my wife admitted that she likes pleasuring herself when ever she doesn't have her period. It actually come as some what of a surprise being as she doesn't like sex toys in general but will use them on occasion and she isn't one to just drop her panties and start fucking. She needs to be aroused and excited first. The frequency of sex hasn't been as often as it used to be between us and I just attribute it to being tired etc. from chasing an over active 5 year old around and doing the normal hose crap.

So from a guys point of view I think I'm like most guys who masturbate fairly regularly but it in no way inhibits my desire to have sex with my wife. Do you ladies have less of a desire to be with your partner when you masturbate or the same or maybe even more? I had a g/f once who told me she HAD TO masturbate herself at least 2 or 3 times a day or she would go crazy. She still had a sex drive that was in high gear and I can never say I recall a time when she didn't want to have sex.

So what do you ladies think?

[r3rjr]

I know my wife doesn't have as strong as an orgasm if we have sex the next day. She uses a virbator which for the past 3 years has given her a double to triple orgasm... As long as she is able to use the vibrator with me, then she can still orgasm. But I do notice a decrease in her please from masturbation.

Maybe some females would like to respond too.

[LostSerenity]

Hmm good question Budde. For me it depends what kind of a mood I'm in. Sometimes I just wanna get it out of my system and yes it will curb my appetite for the day. But most of the time when I'm really horny I masturbate just to hold myself over until my boyfriend gets home. My orgasms are better when he's involved, so most of the time it just makes me crave him more

[MistressSavanna]

I can masterbate until I've lost all feeling in my southern region and still come back from a break ready for sex! My sex drive is probably wayyyy too high. I have to tone it down with partners because seldom can stand it!

[Alastrina]

I tried going for a while [because my toys were in storage] and I was crawling up the walls after about a week and a half. Now I find I gotta masterbate at least twice a week, even though I don't think my sex drive is overly huge.

I gotta admit though, even after all that it doesn't decrease my drive or my desire to pounce on my boyfriend. I just masterbate when I'm wound up and he's passed out. =P

[curious69]

I agree with LostSerenity, it does depend on the mood. But I am a very sexual person, so if I had that day, I'd still definitely be up for sex, and still have it be amazing. Normally, I just have to have more foreplay, but that's the only disadvantage. Except it's not really a disadvantage for me

[watershadow]

It depends. If I have my eye on someone, I tend to masturbate a lot because I'll probably feel highly aroused at the sight or thought of that person. If I don't have someone in mind, I don't tend to do it a lot. However much I masturbate, though, after a short rest, if I am offered sex by an attractive guy, hell YES I'd go for it!

To answer you, Budde, masturbation is nice, but if offered sex with a guy, I'd go for the guy even if I masturbated a lot.

[TuesdayTrouble]

Masturbation only increases my desire for my bf to get home.

[Jan_Jan]

masturbating makes me more horny! it reminds me of the more intense pleasures i could be receiving with my partner but currently ARENT - usually leading to masturbating more than once a day and needing some serious bedroom-time when i finally manage to see my guy

[Hunny Bunny]

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends what mood I'm in. If I just want the orgasm, then it might make me less horny later on, but if I want actual sex, then masturbation is just a primer. It usually makes me want Gooch to come home faster.