Well sometimes fantasies should just remain fantasies. It is not imperative that we live out every single thing that pops into our heads. Your talking about letting your wife have sex with another man/ Weather he's black white or purple really has nothing to do with it in my O/P but rather is your marriage stable enough or better yet are you secure enough for this kind of thing? Not passing judgment on anyone who wants to have an open marriage , hey what ever floats your boat. That being said if this is somethign you both want the first thing you need to do is to discuss this with your wife. Is it something she really wants to do or is she just playing with a taboo? How are you going to go about finding a suitable person to fulfil this fantasty role etc.
Only you know the strength of your marriage and if your able to handle such activity. Good luck in what ever you decide.
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