G-Spots and me

[Stratus]

So..... I've never found a G-Spot on a woman before. I know where it can be located and i've done my fair share of searching, but (especially with my current gf) I haven't found anything down there. I'm very in tune with my girlfriend and what she likes and when i've found something she likes, but I'm at a loss. Is there any suggestions anyone can give me about this, or is she simply, "one of those girls who doesn't have one"?

[GS-Guy]

The absolute key to this is a high state of arousal. (foreplay).
I have written it as instructions for a couple. If you're going solo just adapt where appropriate.

Start with foreplay. Good! Now keep up the foreplay. You're not cutting corners here. She should be on her back facing up.

Once she is aroused move the foreplay to oral stimulation. Start out very gently with no finger insertion yet. Continue the oral foreplay/stimulation. Don't bring her to orgasm but gradually increase the level of stimulation with your tongue.

When she is very stimulated (hopefully you'll be able to tell) slowly...... very slowly insert one finger. I prefer the index finger since it usually has more dexterity. Insert the finger with your palm facing up. Use the pad of your finger to gently press along the top wall of her vagina. She's on her back.

Continue the oral stimulation while slowly rubbing the upper wall of her vagina. Your finger should be moving between 3/4 and 2 inches in and out in a slow steady motion using gentle pressure. The spot you are looking to concentrate on will probably but not necessarily begin to swell slightly (this is a good sign). You may feel something like the roof of your mouth, ridges, but soft, You want the area just beyond that. You can use the "come here" motion if it is comfortable for her.
Also when the arousal level is high you can try using two fingers. (this is easier on the finger muscles.)

Remember you are continuing the oral stimulation during this.

PAY ATTENTION TO HER MOVEMENTS.

As you notice her arousal getting more intense, increase the pressure with your finger and try not to change the pace. Keep it steady and rhythmic. When she orgasms she'll probably want the oral stimulation to stop and just concentrate on the pressure on her g-spot.

Congratulations.

Hopefully I haven't left anything out. Every woman is different but this general step by step will get you in the ballpark. Pay attention to her reactions. Experiment and adjust where necessary. Once you've found it together you'll be able to find many other methods of stimulation that will get her there.

I'd be interested in hearing responses to this and any success stories. Good luck.

GS-G