I have to agree with the others. If you fear that your wife isn't happy, then asking your best friend to join, or take over isn't going to fix anything. In fact, it will probably make a bad situation worse, because sure your friend might think your wife is attractive, but that doesn't mean he would want to "fix" her sex drive for you. I mean if she has a decreased sex drive, that doesn't automatically mean that it's you. It could be things in her life that just isn't right. Your best bet is to talk to her, and find out what could be going on that is making her not want sex, whether it be a sexual problem or relationship problem, you should definitely get to the bottom of that before you drop a bombshell like "how about sleeping with my friend"
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