Eye contact.

[curious69]

1. Why is this such a turn on?
What is that certain 'it' factor about it that makes it so good?
So many guys have told me it's amazing.
Normally, when I blow my man, I do it from the side, i.e., I'm leaning over his right thigh, so I can't really look at him without it being kind of awkward.
2. Also, if we give eye contact, how should we do it?
Just throw a glance up while still blowing him, or, stop, look up at him, then go back to blowing...?
Any DETAILED elaborations on this would be great.
Thank you all in advance.
:-]

[Hunny Bunny]

I think it's hot for the same reason making eye contact during intercourse is. Oral sex is an intimate act, and eye contact reinforces that. It's also a little way to let your lover know that you're enjoying it. When I go down on Gooch, I'll roll my eyes up at him every now and then, (as I'm blowing him) and give him a little smile. He does the same thing when he goes down on me. We both like it, even if we like it for different reasons. (He likes it because thats what the girls on that thar internet do).

[curious69]

Originally Posted by Hunny Bunny

I think it's hot for the same reason making eye contact during intercourse is.

I must say, that is very arousing. Just seeing the wanton lust in his eyes is just SHEW

Originally Posted by Hunny Bunny

(He likes it because thats what the girls on that thar internet do).

Ha I wolud hate that. I don't even want to know if mine watches

[Frantik]

I think Hunny Bunny got it pretty good here. If the way you and your partner are used to makes it awkward to make eye contact while actually having it in your mouth you could always just back off for a little bit, and just work it with your hand a little bit and look up at him.

[curious69]

Thanks Frantik. That's a good idea, i will try it :-]

[Budde]

Don't ask me what it is but I had one g/f in particular who was a genius at giving head, FANTASTIC doesn't even come close to describing her talents. One of the things she did was when ever she was directly between my legs she would always look up at me while she was blowing me. I asked her about it and she said if it bothers you I'll stop. I said no please don't I thought it was a gigantic turn on but couldn't exactly put my finger in it as to why. She told me she loved the look on a guys face when she was pleasuring him. It reassured her that she was doing a good job. She was also a very communicative person, she loved to get oral during sex and always told me how she was feeling when we had sex besides the screams and moans type of communications. She told me she lived to please her man and boy she wasn't kidding

[CoJon]

A generally familiar saying is, "The eyes are the windows to the soul." Well, I find--quite often--that when I look into another's eyes, I feel as if I've just activated an electrical pathway wired directly to the pleasure center(s) of my brain.

When I think about it, though, I realize, sadly enough, that my wife never looks into my eyes either when she's giving me head or when we're having intercourse. I often try to look at her when one of us is giving the other head but all I see, in either case, is the top of her head or the view up into her jawline and nose, and her closed eyelids.

After reading over this thread, I was reminded of how important this is to me--and (I remember has Amy said before) to her, too--and that it could easily add a whole new dimension of enjoyment to our mutual sex life, which could use all the help it can get (as many of you may already know who are familiar with my posts & my wife's and my situation)!

I intend to tell her once again, straightaway, how much I want her to look into my eyes while we are pleasing one another.

This is just one more example of how Allsex helps and me to learn about sex and encourages me think about and actively change my/our sex life in countless, positive ways!

[Gobble]

I think -

-For one, it enforces intimacy to an extent. Although good idea to only maintain eye contact if it's with an actual boyfriend/girlfriend... It may well creep out somebody you picked up at a club.

-Secondly, it reminds the recipient that this is an actual person, and creates further differenciation between a pocket pussy or a lubed up hand - They can't make eye contact.