How to 69?

[anonymous]

basically im asking how would you initiate it. ive already spoken to my girlfriend about it but im asking about in the bed. would you just ask: would you like to try 69 now?. then what?, one of you just climbs on top of the other and you both get into position?. i guess im looking for steps as to how to do 69.

[jake8]

I hope somebody can give you the advice you seem to want. I don't know any special ritual for starting to 69---just start talkin about it and get in position, I think everybody knows what it means. I've hadn't done it much---more often take turns going down when we do oral sex. The few times I did try it came about when I was determined to achieve mutual orgasm, something a lot of the books I read said was the ideal. Well I gave up on that---never worked out, somebody (well, me) always came first. And I never much liked the 69 thing anyway.

[Frantik]

Usually when it comes to getting into 69 I usually wait till she is going down on me then I'll tell her to wait a sec and move to the position. I don't really ask if she wants to do it, I think that when your spontaneous in this way and want to show that you can't wait to get at her and really start getting her worked up, she'll work even harder at getting you off as well.

[anonymous]

ok my girlfriend and i tried it. we both hated it, mainly because of the positioning and she was a bit conscious of her ass in my face which i didnt like either so overall with this experience i hated it, IMO.

[jake8]

Well, anon, it sounds like your experience wasn't too good. But I don't understand that "ass in my face" bit---shouldn't her pussy have been in your face??? However I do understand the positioning problem. I was usually much taller than the girls I tried it with, and if my mouth was in good position to eat pussy, then my penis was not in good position for her to suck and vice-versa. In short I (we) spent so much time adjusting position that it just wasn't worth it. Maybe I just need some lessons.

[Ann Andriani]

Anonymous,

If you only tried 69 once, don't give up on it. You may both need to adjust yourselves a bit. Adding a pillow under one of your heads or butts or both may help the situation a bit. 69 is not a position I do with Larry often because there's just too much going on. I can't fully concentrate on the pleasure I'm receiving because I'm trying to give great pleasure and the vicious circle begins.

Your g/f may be a little self-conscious about her body, her body odor because your naughty bits are really in your partner's face. So that may have caused her a bit of discomfort. Talk about what you didn't like and try to make some changes, adjustments. Don't be afraid to move around, add pillows, change angles to find what works for you. And if you still find you don't like it, then don't fret about not doing. I've been having sex for almost 20 years now and I rarely get into that position. So don't sweat it.

If you do find something that works for you both, please come and share it. Your experience will be very helpful to others.

Ann

[A&F]

The fact that her ass is in your face is one of the best parts of a 69 in my opinion. I think it is hot as hell when her ass is just above your mouth. This gives you the ability to softly begin sticking a finger in her ass, just a digit or two. This usually gets my wife to start moving her hips around while I eat her and finger her ass. She loves it.