How long did you last your first time?

[madstyle]

Well.... did you last very long before you came? or was it within seconds?.

I keep hearing from people especially women telling me I won't last long my first time. donno what they mean by that.

[Frantik]

Oh man, honestly expect yourself to be done pretty quickly. For my first time, I personally blamed it on being to excited after being down on her for an hour but yeah once I got inside it lasted about 2 minutes even with me trying to keep my mind off of it and doing everything I knew possible to hold off. It was a bit embarassing, but she didn't seem to mind.

I don't think any amount of personal masturbation, hand jobs or even blow jobs can ever prepare you to make the first time last to long.

[igor]

I agree with Frantik. My first time was on my honeymoon and I just know (I don't remember exactly) that I didn't last long, but we did it many many times that first night.

[Midnight Blue]

I guess I'm different or something. Cause I lasted awhile. We had sex 3 seperate times that night..each lasting about 10-15 minutes and I didnt orgasm til the final time. So actually about 30-45 minutes? I don't know..might sound like bs to some but thats my true first time experience.

[Ann Andriani]

Originally Posted by Midnight Blue

I guess I'm different or something. Cause I lasted awhile. We had sex 3 seperate times that night..each lasting about 10-15 minutes and I didnt orgasm til the final time. So actually about 30-45 minutes? I don't know..might sound like bs to some but thats my true first time experience.

The anxiety may have worked in the opposite way for you and it can happen like that. The man takes a while to orgasm, nothing wrong with that. Thank you for sharing. Your story should give others hope that it is possible to have some lasting time during first time intercourse. That's the great thing about all of us sharing our stories, it shows how even in similar situations we all have different reactions and responses.

Ann

[Xzilalnx2]

I had fooled around and fingered and been jacked off and such before actually having sex... and had occasions that I felt I came shamefully quick. Though I can say that my first time lasted somewhere are 45 minutes. Me and my gf at the time were going to go over to a friends house in line 20 minutes... and we started having sex. It was amazing. After like 30 her cell phone was ringing off the hook. She picked it up on the side of her bed while I was pumping her and answered with a shakey voice " we'll be over in a little bit we're just runn.... running late ahh ."

After the experience she would constantly get excited and whisper to me " we had sex!! " it was awsome.

[bman]

Zero seconds. My first time I came as soon as I entered her, stayed hard and started stroking and came a second time in about a minute.

Each subsequent time got a little better as I paid attention to the sensations and learned to slow down, etc. The key to getting good at this is to try different things and pay attention to how you and your partner respond (and that will vary from person to person, day to day, mood to mood).

[madstyle]

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[b15ducky]

I Lasted about 20 min We where Both Virgen's I KInda Got Freaked Out when She started Bleeding tho

[Twinkie]

surprisingly 10-15 minutes in the middle i was surprised i lasted as long as i was lol. mightve been that she was on top. i prefer being on top i seem to get off faster when im control but i cant complain on being on bottom