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06-21-2008, 06:55 PM
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hello i would really appreciate good advice. i have a girlfriend for over one year now. she has never had an orgasime before. she had no problem having intercourse with her previous boyfriend for 3 and a half years. today as my girlfriend, she has many problems. now i think concerning the orgasme it's a psych problem, evertime i go down on her she stops after a while of really enjoying herself, saying she can't take it any more, pushing me away. but that's still not the worst problem, she enjoys oral sex. the main issue i'm here for is that every time i insert my penis it herts her like hell. in the begining it wouldn't go in easily so we tried lube and that was better, got in easier but even then she would really suffer pain of me going in and out. she says there is a certain point which really herts her when i touch it. once she even cried and bleeded there. now she says i have a big penis, and her previous boyfriend had a small one, never new it could be a curse. all the doctors she's seen gave her lotions and some showed her how to do exercises that made it easier for me to insert. but still we can't have normal sex because it herts her like hell. is there anything i should try? or anyone you'd think i should turn to? i really need help, please  |
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#2
06-21-2008, 09:37 PM
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Well if you are to well endowed for her then you may have a problem that can't really be solved except through her getting used to it. The only thing I could think of is not trying to go all the way into her maybe and take it really slow try to get her to relax and let her loosen up a bit.
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06-23-2008, 11:48 PM
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| http://www.pelvicpain.org/ you may can look at this site and find some information related to her problem. |
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07-01-2008, 06:29 PM
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The pain could be coming from hitting her cervix. Do you put it all the way in? I'd suggest lube, but you said you've already tried it. Maybe you're not using enough? It also could be that her body just isn't used to it yet. |
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11-01-2008, 11:55 PM
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The human vagina is an amazing thing. Go slow, do it more often, let her be in charge of depth and speed of insertion. Lube it up. I have a rather thick penis with lots of hair at the base. When I started shaving, my wife loved me more and liked it more.
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