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#1
07-01-2008, 03:01 AM
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Me and my gf are both horny, freaks under the sheets. though the thing is we have promised to stay virgin until marriage bc of our religion. So we are wondering what can we do instead of intercourse? Say anything that comes to mind, we don't get shocked that easily  P.S. We know and tried some basic alternatives: bjs, fingering, and dry humping. Though I'm sure y'all can come up with something. My friend told me y'all are experts one this subject XD
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07-01-2008, 06:19 PM
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Well the first thing that comes to mind to me is obviously anal sex. I knew a girl who used to have a pretty healthy sex life but she wanted to save her actual virginity for the guy she married so she always ended up doing anal with guys since she'd never let them penetrate their pussy. Of course if you end up doing this, you're gonna have to remember that it takes alot more work to get up to being ready to be penetrated anally then in the pussy. Have fun. 
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07-01-2008, 06:42 PM
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Personally, I'm a firm believer that anal intercourse is STILL intercourse. Then again, I'm also a firm believer that if you're doing what you're doing, you've already blown the whole virgin thing. But that's MY thoughts and how *I* view sex. But if you're looking for something besides penetration, why not try masturbating for each other. Siometimes it can be fun to just kick back and watch your partner get themself off for you. And to return the favor, of course.
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#4
07-01-2008, 10:17 PM
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If your doing all the things your doing and still not having sex then your a better man then I am. If I were in your shoes it would only be a matter of time before I had intercourse. Some say sex is sex no matter what part of it is your talking about but then an ex president says a blowjob is not sexual relations. Tell that to a divorce lawyer. I guess just keep doing what your doing.......
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07-03-2008, 03:00 AM
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hehe, thanks. Cherry has a good point, but I guess we avoid the whole vaginal intercourse because it kinda helps with our conciseness. Still duno about anal... always been curious about it though =P I might pitch the idea to her O, and Budde. It ain't easy. Especially since she loves to take me to the brink of no return XD
__________________ ======================= I wish to live at the edge of life to laugh as much as I breathe and to love as long as I can live. |
