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Old 07-08-2008, 02:16 PM
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The other night my wife and I had her friend over for some fun. We were out drinking for awhile and decided to head back to our place. We stayed outside and partyed for quite awhile. I asked them to dance together and I told them how hot it was. They both had their tits out in no time at all. I was hard as a rock and showed it to them both. They were kissing and playing with each others tits. I really didn't think it would go further than that. We all started to talk about going in to play some more. We actually went over some ground rules which was cool. We didn't want to chance ruining a friendship. It was so awesome seeing another woman eat my wife out. It was a total fantasy of mine. I ten pulled my wife to me and started fucking her missonary style. The other girl was licking my wife in 69 mode while I was going at it. It was great, her head being right there. I could feel her tongue as I was in and out of my wife. Then we got my wife on all 4's and the girls did the same 69. My balls were all over the other girls face as I fucked my wife. I came so hard I almost passed out. I really hope this happens again, and can't stop thinking about it. My dick has been at half mast since!!!!!
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Old 07-09-2008, 02:08 AM
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Well all I can say is congrats you lucky SOB..........lol I think you lived out what most guys would love to happen with their wife. I would suggest talking to your wife about it and tell her honestly how much you enjoyed it etc. Test the waters a little and see if she is receptive to the conversation. If she balks at it and says she was drunk etc. well it might be a good idea not to push the issue. One thing got my attention unless I'm wrong you didn't actually have sex with the other woman correct? No intercourse, no blowjob etc. If this was the case I would imagine your wife would feel less threatened by another encounter. If you want to fuck her or have her blow you It maybe part of the ground rules you two set up.

Good luck I hope you get to post another successful encounter.
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Old 07-09-2008, 08:37 AM
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You are correct Budde, I didn't have sex or blow job from other girl. That was part of the ground rules. My wife and I had talked about it quite a bit since it happened. She had agreat time, and I think there is a chance it will happen again. Last night the other girl was over and it was like nothing happened. We talked about it alittle, but not too in depth.

I did tell my wife I would like to have them both give me head at the same time. Man that would be hot!!! Two heads to play with at the same time. Mn o man!! She didn't seem too bothered by it. I'll keep you posted, I feel a hot steamy summer!!!
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Old 07-09-2008, 10:03 AM
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Just a womans POV. They seemed to be quite comfortable with each other. My first thought would have been, they have been together before. You might want to explore this avenue. The friend might not be Bi. I didn't see any serious contact between you and her. Personally, when I'm with a woman, I don't want a man in the mix.
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Old 07-10-2008, 08:33 PM
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I'm glad you had a great experience Sex4me, especially since it seemed like your 3some was more of a spontaneous thing. Spontaneity can be troublesome, but it sounds like you took a moment of pause to establish ground rules and that's key. Just keep the lines of communication open with your wife and you should both be fine, especially if her friend is into doing this again.

Larry and I have had a few threesomes with different women and as long you and your wife communicate openly without getting pissed at each other and holding grudges and treat her friend with the utmost respect, things should work out.

Again, glad all worked out for you. We love to hear success stories. Please keep us posted, your experiences and posts will be helpful to others.

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Old 07-12-2008, 08:51 AM
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The other came over a couple of times this past week, and it was cool. We all talked about a bit. We all agreed we would do it again sometime. No need to make plans, just let it happen. I can't wait. My wife was nervous the last time. I bet she will be able to relax more on our next trist!!!
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Old 07-22-2008, 03:42 AM
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Well,

From everything I have read on this site a threesome is a good thing to do so long as you have all your ducks in row with your partner and the third person. I am sure things can go wrong if one is not careful.

The hurdle I find is with finding the right person to share a bed with us. I get so horny just thinking of the possibilities and the positions. I am scared to ask anyone I don't know to do this. So I guess I am not there yet. She has to be a woman I like and she has to like me too. I guess I have to be open to the posibilities and see. Anyone has any suggestions?

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Old 08-06-2008, 03:30 PM
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i think she opened up for more 3sums even to the other girl giving you a blowjob considering they did a 69.

if you ask about continuing to bring a woman into your sex lives maybe she'll wanna try 2 men on her? something to think about
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Old 08-07-2008, 08:54 AM
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Well,

From everything I have read on this site a threesome is a good thing to do so long as you have all your ducks in row with your partner and the third person. I am sure things can go wrong if one is not careful.

The hurdle I find is with finding the right person to share a bed with us. I get so horny just thinking of the possibilities and the positions. I am scared to ask anyone I don't know to do this. So I guess I am not there yet. She has to be a woman I like and she has to like me too. I guess I have to be open to the posibilities and see. Anyone has any suggestions?
Having feelings for one another is the best.my first experience was with my dearest friend of many years,which we both had deep feelings for each other.we did lady things together,nails,hair,massage and waxing.we were surprised when my master finally agreed and we made all the ground rules together[actually the first time was a foursome with her husband].she has become my mistress and we have had some beautiful threesomes.i have no problem with him having sex with her,it's quite erotic.
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