Practice is the key to orgasm control for men. I was a "quick draw McGraw" until I was about 40 and I decided I had to fix the problem. While my wife was visiting family in another state, I masturbated as often as possible, but not allowing myself to orgasm. I got so good at predicting orgasm, I could transfer that into the bed and if my wife will allow me to stop before the firest two 'nearcomes", I keep it up for as long as we want. When she gets tired, or starts to dry up, she just says, "I think you should come now". I change my point of focus from her to me and can shoot in a minute or two. I do however enjoy it when my wife just reaches over when the alarm goes off and gives me a quicky hand job. Better than orange juice.
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