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[kensmith69]

A few years ago my wife made out with a guy that worked for us.
It was ongoing for one summer and it was a very big turn on for me.
The guy moved away and it came to a end.

My wife seemed to enjoy it as much as I did ,but now I cant seem to get her to even discuss it much less do it.

Why?

[Budde]

It maybe that it was one of those things she just wanted to try, did it and that was enough. Not every fantasy or experimentation leads to the person doing it for ever or all the time. I knew a girl way back when who was a friend but we fucked occasionally never really boyfriend girlfriend relationship kinda thing, when ever either of us weren't dating we would hook up. So she felt very comfortable with telling me everything as there was nothing to jeopardise serious relationship wise. So anyway one night we were laying there after having sex and she rolls over and tels me she thinks she want to have sex with a woman. She wants to explore being either Bi sexual or gay. I was like ok can I watch.........lol She said this is something I've been thinking about for quite some time now. So I told her if it's was something she really wanted to try etc. I was behind her and told her to go for it. Well not too long after that night I started dating someone for a while and she told me she had met a girl she liked etc. and they were having "a relationship of sorts"
I thought it was cool and wished her good luck. Well we met for drinks one night and she asked about my g/f, told her that wasn't anything serious and it would be over sooner or later. She said good because I need to get laid real bad. I said what happened to your relationship of sorts? She said she tried it and it wasn't for her. I siad well maybe she wasn't the right girl. she said nope it wasn't what I thought it was going to be and the girlfriend was way too possessive and too much of a man hater for her.
So long and the short of it maybe your wife tried it and figured that it was over it's done and time to move on.
If you've approached her about it and she doesn't want to talk about it my advice is don't push the issue. That usually turns into a fight.

[A&F]

I believe it could be one of two things.
One: She was simply more open minded then and was willing to fulfill her fantasies and yours because she was so involved with whatever you all had going.

Two: She really thought this guy was hot and no other has been able to fill his shoes. This is not to say she liked the guy more than you, obviously... but she found him good enough to take the step with.

Personally, I dont see the fact of experimenting once married a problem. I know that I love my wife in a way that no other woman could come close to. However, I am still a man and I fantasize and think of worlds of sex scenes with us both involved. Some are of her with other men or women, or vise versa.

My advice is that if she no longer sees things in this same light then perhaps that whole part of your lives has turned another page.

[kensmith69]

Originally Posted by A&F

I believe it could be one of two things.
One: She was simply more open minded then and was willing to fulfill her fantasies and yours because she was so involved with whatever you all had going.

Two: She really thought this guy was hot and no other has been able to fill his shoes. This is not to say she liked the guy more than you, obviously... but she found him good enough to take the step with.

Personally, I dont see the fact of experimenting once married a problem. I know that I love my wife in a way that no other woman could come close to. However, I am still a man and I fantasize and think of worlds of sex scenes with us both involved. Some are of her with other men or women, or vise versa.

My advice is that if she no longer sees things in this same light then perhaps that whole part of your lives has turned another page.

I think your right.
Not really what i wanted to hear but .................