Loss Of Enjoyment?

[lonevigilante]

Help!

These days, I seem to have lost the 'pleasure' part when I ejaculate! My girlfriend and I have been doing it like mad at times, but sadly, I only had quite a few very hard rocking orgasms. Most of the time I just cum, and yes it feels pleasurable but where did most of the pleasure go? Help!

[essmtg]

You may be "settling in" to having regular sex with your girlfriend so I can think of a couple things that you can try:

- strengthen your PC muscle by doing kegel excercises and when you feel an orgasm coming on during sex SQUEEZE your PC muscle for a heightened orgasm.

- what sort of things do you think about when you have sex? if your mind is focused on something you really love about her and how she is all yours, it will probably turn you on more than you might think.

- wait a day or so and spend that whole day off teasing yourself all day but never getting all the way so that when you see your girlfriend next you are dying to have her (let her know in advance if you want she might think it's sexy, too).

good luck!

[igor]

Yeah - how old are you? How often are you having sex? Do you also masturbate - how often? Maybe you are just doing it too much.

[Sieglinde]

Tell your woman to finger your bottom. When I want my partners to have an especially good orgasm, I put one or two fingers deep into their rectums and touch or massage their prostates and then they explode.