Girls did she orgasm?

[LJC]

Hi

I was lying in my bed this morning with this girl (18) I just met & got round to gently massaging her pussy & clit till she was nicely wet, then inserted a finger, then 2.
By this point her heart rate increased & as I upped the tempo directly in & out simultaneously rubbing her front vaginal wall I start to hear her breath...
She's now so wet I can hear it squelching as I eventually work my fingers to a frenzy, her breathing becomes much louder & deeper & then suddenly I see her legs contract & she shut them trapping my hand so I couldn't carry on, so gently eased my fingers out & gave her moist lips a few strokes before she kisses me & says "I definitely need to go for a wee after that" (start to finish about 10/15min max)

Then when she came back to bed she lays her head against my chest in an affectionate way & cuddles up to me so think/hope I pleased her.

But without asking (which I wont now lol) I cant know for sure as I've read that the feeling of needing to piss in g-spot stimulation is just a sensation that is overcome before orgasm & she didn't squirt. Or then maybe it was just the pressure applied to her bladder & perhaps nothing to do with that...

So although I like to think I know what I'm doing, I'm still clueless.

Ladies may I have your opinion please.

[Ann Andriani]

LJC,

Chances are high that you're g/f had an orgasm. While G-Spot stimulation can cause a woman to ejaculate, not all women do. Just because your g/f had to urinate after sex, doesn't mean she didn't really have an orgasm. All women's orgasms are different and each react in different ways when having the big 'O'. It sounds like you did a fine job and gave your g/f some serious pleasure.

Here's some more information for you on Female Ejaculation:

http://www.allsexguide.com/female_ejaculation.htm

I know you're both still young, but the sooner you can openly speak about sex inside or outside the bedroom, the sooner you'll learn what you each enjoy and can have a more satisfying sex life all around. If unsure, just ask her. Let her know you thought it was really hot.

Communication is key.
Ann

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by LJC

Hi

I was lying in my bed this morning with this girl (18) I just met & got round to gently massaging her pussy & clit till she was nicely wet, then inserted a finger, then 2.
By this point her heart rate increased & as I upped the tempo directly in & out simultaneously rubbing her front vaginal wall I start to hear her breath...
She's now so wet I can hear it squelching as I eventually work my fingers to a frenzy, her breathing becomes much louder & deeper & then suddenly I see her legs contract & she shut them trapping my hand so I couldn't carry on, so gently eased my fingers out & gave her moist lips a few strokes before she kisses me & says "I definitely need to go for a wee after that" (start to finish about 10/15min max)

Then when she came back to bed she lays her head against my chest in an affectionate way & cuddles up to me so think/hope I pleased her.

But without asking (which I wont now lol) I cant know for sure as I've read that the feeling of needing to piss in g-spot stimulation is just a sensation that is overcome before orgasm & she didn't squirt. Or then maybe it was just the pressure applied to her bladder & perhaps nothing to do with that...

So although I like to think I know what I'm doing, I'm still clueless.

Ladies may I have your opinion please.

I think Ann is right in many things she said..First; ask her,what's the big deal...Second,we don't always squirt,I guess some never do...Third,if she was that wet she was obviously pleased and enjoyed herself....Next time and like Ann said [talk about it] and ask her to go to the bathroom before you start.Telling her you want to give her a g-spot orgasm/massage.Maybe you'll both see if she is a squirter.We are not all loud and verbal when we have orgasms or squirt.My body does the same as your g/f[contracts,shakes,squeezing inner thighs,heavy breathing]...A for her concern...C for lack of discussion

[LJC]

Thanks for your replys.

So when it comes to her squeezing her thighs together...

Is it because it's become too sensitive for her or is it an automatic reflex to orgasm itself?
& if so was I right to stop when I did or should I have paused then carried on?...or prob right to leave it how I did?

Like I say, I think it went ok. I just wonder if I could have given her more as I think if I wasn't using my fingers she'd only be able to wrap her legs tight around me (& maybe claw my back while I carry on)

But it is confusing as obviously I'll never know how the process feels for you women, I know when we cum we like to carry on stimulation for several moments after, before our glands become hyper sensitive & then it would feel raw!

I'm sure I can have another go, test her reactions & maybe, like you say just ask her.