How do u know if a girl has cum/orgasmed?

[bboy]

Hey im new here i just was wondring how do you know if your gf/partner has cum or orgasmed? and when do u know when to stop playing with her? or the longer the better?

thanks in advance

[Xzilalnx2]

Unless you could measure the dopamine in her brain I don't think there is a finite way to tell. I may be mistaken but I think it is possible for a guy to "orgasm" before he actually ejaculates. Therefore the ejaculation is not necessarily that finite... but it is still something.

If you are concerned with it ask your partner. If you feel that she is lying ( or she actually is ) then maybe you shouldn't be having intercourse with someone who lies to you.

There secondary things that you could try to use as signals that she has has an orgasm.
1: she tells you( lol )
2: she says she is close, then you later hear a "ahhh" in huge relief
3: muscle spasms during--relaxation after.

hope that helps

[Gooch]

I wish I could tell you that there was a foolproof way to tell when a girl orgasms, but there just isn't. There are some physical signs, but not every girl shows them when she does cum, and they can be faked when she doesn't. I'm only sure that HB isn't faking because she has a way of letting me know when she can't orgasm.

[any14fun]

wife my wife i always knew when she cum. other then the loud ahhhhhh her pussy would suddenly tighten and then get extrememly wet then loosen off.
although lately she has made the noise but not got very wet or loosened off

[greywolf7080]

turn the light on. Go down on her. Watch her as you work her clitoris. her thighs will either tighten or relax or tighten and then relax, her face is the key. My wife sometimes bites her lip, clenches her teeth, or holds her breath and then releases. If she has one of her 'full body orgasms' as we call them, her whole body collapses on the bed. After orgasm her cllit is off limits for a while, so I usually hold her close until she moves into the position she prefers for intercourse.

[xjambix]

There are lots of ways that you can tell;

1. Her body may tighten up
2. She may try and push you away (I do this, but I don't know why, lol)
3. She may vocalise her orgasm, through words or whatever else
4. Her face might show she's orgasmed
5. You may feel her vagina spasm
6. Some women ejaculate through a g-spot orgasm

If you still don't know (she might do none of these), you could always ask her to tell you.

For some women, it's best to stop playing with her after she's orgasmed, as the clit can get reeeeally sensitive.

I think you should talk to your partner about this, communicate a bit more.