How can I be a minute man?

[ThickStick]

So I am 27 yr. old male and I havent had sex more than probably 8 or 10 times my entire life. I am a hermit and have social anxioty, so I do not go out often or meet women often, it sucks. I have basically been a walking hard on my entire life. Horny to the point where I wish god would just take away my desire for women, its all I think about. So because of that I am a compulsive masturbater. I probably masturbate till I orgasm, on average, 6 times a day, sometimes more. Have been like this since I was 13. First real sex was at 17, then didn't happen again till I was 21, then the last 7 or so times didn't happen until about a year ago. I HAVE ONLY CLIMAXED ONCE. For some reason I can go forever, it feels good and I can get to the point where I feel like I am going to climax and nothing happens. I just keep going, and going, and going. I constantly masturbate to pics of models and celebs of the internet. Is it possible I have become so used to my hand that sex with a real woman will never do it for me? I have never had a girlfriend, so I have never had sex consistantly. Last but not least, over the last 9 months or so I have had a couple encounters where I can not get erect. I mean, I am the horniet person I know and I am constantly masturbating, the second I get an erection during the day, I have to get a room. Could I have worn my penis out at 27 years old, or could I be starting to severly lose testosterone because of my age. Now that I think about it, I have not been getting as hard over the last couple of years as I used to when I masturbate or maybe its because I do it so damn much, I dont know. But hell, I am only 27, I thought I was in my prime. Thanks for reading, sorry so freakin long.

[Budde]

Well your request is rather unusual in the respect most men want to last longer not cum quicker. That being said I can't think of anything other then maybe try switching hands or possibly a male masturbation toy. Stories like yours support my argument for making prostitution legal. Now not advocating you or anyone should go out and break the law but why shouldn't one who lacks the social skills to meet women the conventional ways or men who just don't want a relationship (women too for that matter) be allowed to have sex with a consenting adult for a fee. I pay a massage therapist to work on my back once or twice a week depending on how bad it feels and believe me it feels as close to sex as you can get without orgasm. I pay her for her services so why should it be any different for a prostitute? I just guess it's commentary on the archaic society in whihc we live.

All that aside maybe you could talk to a therapist who maybe able to help you with your social skills so you can have better success at meeting women that is if you want to but if your happy doing what your doing thats fine too.

[Strawbs]

from what you've said about your social anxiety, perhaps your inability to climax isn't a sexual malfunction, but stems from something deeper?

It sounds like something you should maybe see a therapist for. Not even a sex therapist, just a regular one who will help you work with your confidence and people skills. Once you have the anxiety, and the reasons for it, cleared up and sorted through, the rest should follow.