Unable to fantasize..

[Klip]

Basically this is something I've tried from time to time but it never really bothered me that I could'nt do it untill recently.

I'm unable to have an orgasm with just mental images and thoughts, I know allot of people that can, and often do. Most notably was my ex, whom tried to guide me through step by step on how, but ultimately I wasn't able too.

I always need visual aids to enjoy myself, I try to just make up a story in my mind, and I can get mental images down in my mind sure...but I quickly just lose focus or idk..It just "stops" I'm not really sure why I'm unable to experience this..

I want to enjoy an orgasm with nothing but my thoughts any advice would be great.

[Sieglinde]

You start masturbating with images in your mind then lose focus and think of something else (like how good whatever you are doing to yourself feels!) and come back to another image, again lose focus, etc. What's to worry? I'm like that, too. There's no problem with you. We're all like that. But, if you're absolutely obsessed with masturbating to a "narrative" get some porn and have it in front of you and masturbate to it. You will lose less focus because it's outside your mind not in it. (I begin the focus on my tingling rises of sensation down there! I completely lose "focus")