How can I get my gf to let me cum in her mouth?

[james890]

I would so love my gf to let me do this but I'm not sure if she'd be up for it.
She gives me really good head during foreplay (only ever during foreplay sadly) though only for a few mins (she does seem to enjoy it but her jaw starts aching). I fantasize often about cumming in her mouth but just can't bring myself to ask her. We don't talk about sex that much and we're not really that adventurous except for a few positions and 69s so it's really difficult for me to ask.

Any tips on how I can get her interested? I wish I could let her know just how much it would mean to me and make me feel.
Anyone who was in a similar position, from either partners perspective?

[Budde]

In a nutshell communication between partners is one of the most important keys to having a good relationship. You two are sharing each others bodies so why would you be uncomfortable when it comes to talking about it? If you want her to do something or have a fantasy unless she's a mind reader how is she going to know about it. She may very well be willing to allow you to cum in her mouth and then maybe she won't. What ever the case you need to respect her decision. A lot of women don't like to swallow a guys load and thats their prerogative. Unless your willing to do the same things your asking her to do then you just have to take her answer at face value if she says she doesn't like it or feels it's disgusting or what ever.

[james890]

I feel stupid because earlier in our relationship she asked (not in a completely serious way like she was offering to or anything) if I was interested in that sort of thing....and I said "not particularly." I don't know why I did. I suppose I feel weird asking her things like "will you swallow my cum?" I'd feel stupid like it's a line from a porno.
Maybe I'll ask her if she thinks we could do other things to liven up our sex life, things we haven't tried...and then pose the question of whether she'd let me do this.

[Budde]

Ok so now is the time when you smack yourself in the forehead like the commercial........lol Don't stress over it and don't feel stupid . Of course she's not going to swallow your cum because you told her no. Just relax and maybe say hey remember when you asked me that well I was thinking about it and if you were serious I would like to give it a try. If she says no she wasn't then thats that but if she says yes then count your lucky stars and let it be a lesson that no question is stupid and don't feel silly. Women as intuitive as they might be are not mind readers and guess what neither are you. It's a good thing to ask her what she likes and maybe is there something she was wanting to try or have you do to her. It is a two way street.