Sex Problem

[mrhacc]

Hello me and my fiance have been together for 4 years. She was 18 and I was 22 when we met and we both was virgins. The first 2 years of our relationship she never had a problem with sex. Then one day it jus changed!??... It began to to hurt her and she could not get wet or turned on at all when we would have intercourse. We have used lubes, long foreplay but no matter what we do 9 times outa 10 she ends up having to stop after no more than 5-10 minutes and sometimes even less She has said different things about it such as burning, irtiating, sometimes stabbing?? but no matter what she says it really isnt good it jus hurts her. She doesnt get wet 9 times outa 10 as well. However she is not into lube at all we have tried it in the past and I dont know if Im buying the wrong kind or what but she says its jus too much or not enough or it burns/irritates. We rarely have sex now days it seems if we do its maybe once or twice a month. Another big problem is she never orgasims ever!! We have bought the hitachi , bullets and she has spent time doing it herself and then me coming in afterwards or before and regardless it jus doesnt happen. I need help bad sex is very important in a relationship or well I feel that and I jus dunno what to do Ive tried to get her to go to the doctor even but she jus doesnt do it. Now to flash forward to the present she jus told me the other day that we arent working and I know this is because of the sex situation really everything else in our lives are going fine. She wanted to even talk about trying a open relationship so she could expereince another guy if it came to that. I feel she thinks I may be the prob. she said maybe we jus dont have any sexual chemistry and that she jus doesnt get turned on or have a drive to have sex with me. Its a very rough time in my life and relationship I dont want to have a open relationship but if she was try and experiment sex with another person and it worked well and then shew I dunoo I guess I was the prob. It is jus seeming like a lose lose situation for me.. WE have had this problem for over 2 years with her having no sex drive and it hurting but now its jus rock bottom with us and sex but yet she throws me a curve ball wanting to maybe try sex out with someone different if the situation ever occurs???? Any advice at all sorry for the huge message I jus really cant get it all in there