submissive advice from her master

[lovingardeners]

HI
This is an extension of an email i posted before

My girl and i have talked about the idea of using scenarios etc to help her get to the place she wants to find her sub side
she has had some sub space and loves it
her work requires her to be strong
and her family
but she has also had submissive fantasies
some are slutty ones where she is taken by me and i allow other men to have her
others where she watches me with other women
some are unreal fantasies - she is a margaret atwood fan and is fascinated by the idea of women being taken as sex slaves and as incubators .....
she also likes the idea of preparing a meal and an evening and then serving me in every way - sucking me while i eat....serving me sexually
and other times of being experimented on as a mad professor works on stretching her nipples and labia and fucking her etc

i would be interested if anyone can give me insights tey may glean of where her mind is heading or symbols etc
i have my own ideas but want some more objective viewpoints

i have suggested she writes these stories and scenarions out and then we role play them so she can step back and enjoy her sub role
and hopefully we can use this to move her to her subspace and in time also for tying her and spanking and such
all thoughts
advice an such welcome
thanks

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by lovingardeners

HI
This is an extension of an email i posted before

My girl and i have talked about the idea of using scenarios etc to help her get to the place she wants to find her sub side
she has had some sub space and loves it
her work requires her to be strong
and her family
but she has also had submissive fantasies
some are slutty ones where she is taken by me and i allow other men to have her
others where she watches me with other women
some are unreal fantasies - she is a margaret atwood fan and is fascinated by the idea of women being taken as sex slaves and as incubators .....
she also likes the idea of preparing a meal and an evening and then serving me in every way - sucking me while i eat....serving me sexually
and other times of being experimented on as a mad professor works on stretching her nipples and labia and fucking her etc

i would be interested if anyone can give me insights tey may glean of where her mind is heading or symbols etc
i have my own ideas but want some more objective viewpoints

i have suggested she writes these stories and scenarions out and then we role play them so she can step back and enjoy her sub role
and hopefully we can use this to move her to her subspace and in time also for tying her and spanking and such
all thoughts
advice an such welcome
thanks

Is she ready to act on these fantacies or is she ready to give up contol to you?..I don't know how you would role play her being taken by other men or having her watch you fucking other women..I knew when I could trust him enough to give up control and from there everything is his decision[though with guide lines and a safe word],espically when it comes to being bound,spanked,ordered,etc,which leaves one helpless and in the hands of someone you can trust....Being submissive does not make one an idiot.It's their nature,something they crave and in my case,what I needed....These things need to be discussed and communication is the key...Also being sub is not always sexual.One gets pure pleasure from just serving.Sex is the reward in a way,although being denied involvement and orgasm can be as well as a good spanking...I think I would need more of her thoughts,wishes,etc to explain more....I've had several men[friends],didn't think it was nasty or I was a slut...Questions for you ,are you ready to become her master and deal with her being with other men living out both of your fantancies if possible?