How to find a girl for us?

[keepquiet]

I'm a 20 year old female and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, we've been living together for just over a year. My ultimate fantasy is to have a girl in bed with me and let him watch, or to let him join in with us. I have never had a threesome before, but before I was in this serious relationship with my current boyfiend I would have casual sex and fun with girlfriends.

Neither of us have any female friends that we would be comfortable asking, and I don't think any of them would swing that way anyways. We need an open minded person, and there can't reallt be any strings attached that would complicate things. We hang out at bars and do other social things, we meet lots of poeple but it seems like a wierd thing to imvite someone into.

Does such a girl exsist? What is the best way to find her?

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by keepquiet

I'm a 20 year old female and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, we've been living together for just over a year. My ultimate fantasy is to have a girl in bed with me and let him watch, or to let him join in with us. I have never had a threesome before, but before I was in this serious relationship with my current boyfiend I would have casual sex and fun with girlfriends.

Neither of us have any female friends that we would be comfortable asking, and I don't think any of them would swing that way anyways. We need an open minded person, and there can't reallt be any strings attached that would complicate things. We hang out at bars and do other social things, we meet lots of poeple but it seems like a wierd thing to imvite someone into.

Does such a girl exsist? What is the best way to find her?

You said you had girlfriends that you had casual sex with girls before.Maybe one of them is bi.Meeting one at bars might be ok if your sure and take the time to know that she is disease free,but to me is risky.There are many sex sites that you post an ad,which today many ppl are doing joining single dating sites.I would guess that everyone is screened and have to give some correct info about themselves..I think it would be very easy to ask proof of medical.....We had friends long before we had sex with them and we all made sure it didn't ruin our friendship and then met friends thru friends.Much safer and we also knew they were into the same lifestyle as we were ....I beleive foursome are much easier[another couple]....Our lifestyle took years,as did getting together with friends....Also it's not as weird as you think asking someone to join you two...Good Luck

[Larry]

This topic has been discussed a bunch here. Try searching for threesome and you will find a variety of information.

More specifically you have a look at my past post Finding a Third

Also there are several posts in the alternative and polyamory sections.