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#1
10-19-2008, 09:08 PM
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Hi all, I'm in my late twenties, and just recently had my first orgasm (and then a few more); I finally bought a vibrator! Firstly, it takes me about 40 minutes to get there every time - which makes me wonder if my partner will ever be able to do it for me...but more important, I'm not quite sure that my orgasm is coming to full term? I definitely know I'm having one: it's this intense overwhelming amazing feeling and I can't control my body/sounds, and afterwards it's almost painful to touch my clit. But the feeling only lasts two seconds or so, and there isn't a "release" like I always thought there would be. I don't have a feeling of euphoria or anything afterwards - in fact I usually want to keep going, but can't because of the pain. When I'm climaxing, I continue to rub myself the entire time...is this my problem? Should I stop once I feel I'm having an orgasm? I just think that it's stopping half way through or something. Any advice would be great, as I'm not quite sure whether this is just how I'm going to orgasm the rest of my life, or if I can do something to "finish" or prolong it. Thanks!  |
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#2
10-20-2008, 12:07 AM
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Mine started off kind lame, but seem to get more intense as time goes on. My first ones were when I was about 15, and I remember being a little disappointed. Is this really what all the fuss is about? They have gotten more and more intense though it seems. So in my experience they have gotten better. I'm also super sensitive after wards. I'm not a multiple orgasmer like I hear stories about. After one I'm pretty much set for a while. I guess the only way to see for sure is to keep practicing  |
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10-27-2008, 06:36 AM
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Orgasms for women are funny things. I think something is needed to trigger them, dunno what though. When they start off they're rubbish. I remember mine when I first started orgasming, they felt like a twinge of good sex. But now, they're amazing. Like so intense I start crying, lol. Once you get to know what gets you off, you'll be able to come much sooner and they'll be easier to get as time goes by. Why don't you and your partner sit down and have a night dedicated to you and their aim is to make your orgasm anyway he can. |
