Water Sports... I Have a Problem

[Kam]

I have a little problem. My husband really wants me to pee, while wearing jeans and panties. I have no objections... quite the opposite... I really want to do it for him. We've tried twice now. Both times, my bladder was very full and I felt like I was going to go any second, however, it just didn't happen.

My husband thinks it's just the ingrained, "No, you mustn't do that" thing that is making it hard for me. He may be right, I don't know. It's very frustrating because it's an experience I really want and I know he wants it too. He's been very understanding and tells me I have nothing to feel bad about, but I still feel bad. The last time we tried I ended up in tears because I was so frustrated.

How can I make it easier for myself and hopefully get past whatever the problem is?

[Winterwhite]

I would suggest getting subconsciously 'used' to the concept of being wet while fully clothed - and so try sitting in a bathtub of warm water while dressed in your undies and jeans, and then see if you can relax and 'let it wee'. Do it alone if it helps. Then, once you've accustomed your mind to such sensations, try standing up in the tub in mid-pee, to 'teach' yourself what it feels like while standing straight. Where does your husband want you to pee? There's all sorts of concerns for the carpet or matress or whatnot that might crop up in your mind. It'll take a little time to get used to the notion.

Don't get discouraged, you're trying to 'undo' something that was very strongly ingrained in all of our minds as children - wetting one's self is "bad", and now suddenly you're telling yourself it's good? It's not that easy of a subconscious thing to just tear down and ignore...

My SO had me try something similar. She'd observed that I was one who never got angry, which she deemed (and I would tend to agree) unhealthy. So handed me a regular glass drinking glass, and told me to put all of my hurt and anger into it, and then to smash that glass on the kitchen tiles. I couldn't do it! Too many 'no-nos' running through my mind: It was her apartment, she was renting, why break a perfectly good glass? What about the pieces, how will I find them all? What about the damage to the floor tiles?

It took me almost three hours. I tried everything. She finally thought I'd have an easier time if she went outside. She stayed away for almost two hours, the poor thing. Finally, I don't know how I did it, but I smashed that glass on her floor so hard that I saw sparks (I was in the dark - part of how I managed to 'shut out' my inhibitions). Oh, and now there's a quarter-coin-sized divet in one of her tiles... But I did it. Inhibitions are a b%ch to overcome...

So hang in there, and above all, relax in the notion that you're in control, that you can clean up whatever happens, that your husband loves you, that you love you, and that you have control of your bladder, so you choose when and where to let it go. Sometimes, if it's deliberate, then it's all right to wet yourself It's precisely because it's deliberate that it's erotic.

[Budde]

Well I don't have any experience at it myself nor do I have the desire but I have a suggestion, why not go out for a ride and drink three or four cups of coffee or bottle of water etc. your choice and purposely drive where you don't have the option of pulling into a rest area. When the urge just becomes too much let yourself go. I would suggest putting a chuck or a towel on the seat of your car. This may or may not work but perhaps once you have it happen once it may be easier to do when the two of you want it to happen.