Interrupt him masturbating?

[anothergirl]

My partner and I have a lot of sex. I'm usually the aggressor, but things are going well. He and I are very honest and open and tell one another if we're not in the mood. This weekend, he got up before me and was taking a shower. I could hear a very...rhythmic, squishy noise through the door and thought he might be masturbating. Rather than letting it go, I thought I'd join him. I can't pass up sex with him. I went in and he gave no hint that he had been masturbating, other than he was hard and I gave no hint that I knew what he had been doing. We made love in the shower (he was unable to finish, saying it was because we'd just had sex 6 hours before), but I'm hyper sensitive in retrospect...was I interrupting his private time? Should I respect his masturbating (if he was) and let him choose that if he'd rather not have sex? We talk about a lot of things, but I'd rather not ask him this so soon after that incident as I don't want to embarrass him...

Thanks!

[Gooch]

You may have interrupted his "private time", but I don't think he will hold it against you. I think that if he felt the least bit uneasy about the situation, he would have lost his erection immediately. I don't see the harm in just dropping this thing. Let him think that you didn't know what he was doing, and just wait for him to finish next time. Chalk it up to just "one of those things".

[Luvoral]

Originally Posted by anothergirl

My partner and I have a lot of sex. I'm usually the aggressor, but things are going well. He and I are very honest and open and tell one another if we're not in the mood. This weekend, he got up before me and was taking a shower. I could hear a very...rhythmic, squishy noise through the door and thought he might be masturbating. Rather than letting it go, I thought I'd join him. I can't pass up sex with him. I went in and he gave no hint that he had been masturbating, other than he was hard and I gave no hint that I knew what he had been doing. We made love in the shower (he was unable to finish, saying it was because we'd just had sex 6 hours before), but I'm hyper sensitive in retrospect...was I interrupting his private time? Should I respect his masturbating (if he was) and let him choose that if he'd rather not have sex? We talk about a lot of things, but I'd rather not ask him this so soon after that incident as I don't want to embarrass him...

Thanks!

Why bring it up when you ended up having sex.Seems he did not mind you joining him.I have walked in on my h/b when he was giving himself a good soaping and asked him if he needed a hand.He quickly opened the door and learned how he liked it to be handled,also liked the spray job.He has caught me before and he just crawled between my legs and said ''continue please''.Nothing to be embarrassed about.We like our private time,but if one of us is interrupted a helping hand is always welcome...He doesn't always finish,but says it's still very satisfying and later if we have sex he has more intense ejaculations..If you have questions,you need answers,but somethings don't need explainations..Just think if the scene was reversed...

[anothergirl]

Thanks for the advice; you're both right and I don't think I'll bring it up. In retrospect, I think I was just feeling left out. Best reaction for the future might be to masturbate to the thought of what he's doing rather than barging in...

[MistressSavanna]

I agree...maybe just try having fun by yourself next time. At least you still got to have some fun in the shower

[SxyStar]

I have had about the same thing happen. I walked in on my b/f masturbating in the bathroom to one of my Erotica books. He seemed a little embrassed, but that is only b/c his family never talked about sex. They were very conservative. It didn't both me any. Only thing I told him, was that we could probably try mutual masturbation so we could see what each other liked.