Too much erection too soon?

[confused]

My gorgeous guy seems to have issues; every time I kiss him, sit too close, or my button is undone just a bit too much, he gets an instant erection.

Its really difficult, as I love him to pieces, but I cannot sleep in the same bed with him, because the previously mentioned problem keeps him up all night, meaning he is really tired in the morning, or he wakes me up several times during the night.

He feels bad, as he'll have to go into the next room to get rid of the problem for himself. Yet, he wont go to the doctors. I am wondering if this is normal? And if there's anything that can be done? He said he usually maturates every night, otherwise the build up actually gets painful.

I would love to just fall asleep with him.
Confused

[tazz316]

I'm the same way, Sometimes just holding hands with my girl gets me hard, lol. love feet so just looking at a girl with cute feet gets me hard so lots of times I'll just be doing something as simple as shopping at target and I'll see a pretty girl with sexy looking feet walking by and then I get hard.

[Budde]

Well just consider it a compliment, men typically think about something sexual every couple of minutes. I read a study some where but can't remember the exact figure but trust me we aren't as complicated as women not much going on up there except I have a penis and how can I stick it some place. This is not to say that his feeling/attraction toward you isn't genuine but this is jsut the way we are wired. Some guys have a better way of hiding it then others and some don't react as fast or as intense as others. If they don't react what so ever you had better call 911 and check for a pulse.......

If he wants to "sleep" with you then set some ground rules. Either you'll get him off or it will be a mutual thing but lets say when the jammys go back on your done. He's ll have to take care of himself from there on out. It may calm it's self down after a while but I don't think he needs to see a doctor about it.
Heck a good stiff breeze and the crack of dawn still gives me a chubby......

[igor]

Originally Posted by confused

My gorgeous guy seems to have issues; every time I kiss him, sit too close, or my button is undone just a bit too much, he gets an instant erection.

He feels bad, as he'll have to go into the next room to get rid of the problem for himself. Yet, he wont go to the doctors. I am wondering if this is normal?

We all have different degrees of "horniness." I used to be the same way, pretty anything female-related would get me stiff. Now in my advanced 68 year old body, I need more stimulation that I used to, but if the wife comes onto me, I still easily rise to the occasion.

A doctor can't do anything for his "problem."

[Ann Andriani]

He feels bad, as he'll have to go into the next room to get rid of the problem for himself. Yet, he wont go to the doctors. I am wondering if this is normal? And if there's anything that can be done? He said he usually maturates every night, otherwise the build up actually gets painful.

Are you saying that if he doesn't cum his erection stays? How long does/will it last?

Ann

[Gooch]

So, if I understand this right, he gets an erection whenever the two of you are in bed trying to sleep, and it won't go away until he masturbates? Well, that seems like an easy fix. I'm the same way, if HB so much as looks at me just right, I get hard. Luckily for me, we've been going at it just about every day since she moved in with me, so I'm definetly worn out by the time I try to get to sleep. But yeah, erections can start to hurt if you have the same one for too long. So one way or another, it's gotta get taken care of. I don't think there's anything medically wrong with him, it just sounds like he gets excited easily. If he can get around this by rubbing one out before bed, then that may just have to become part of his daily cool-down routine. Unless you help him out in that department. Let me know if I'm missing something.

[TauBeta]

This is how the expression "hurting" started. Yes it does hurt sometimes if you are not relieved and the girls do not help one bit. They do everything they can to look and be sexy to make us guys horny and then do nothing about it. This is where the term "tease" came from.

It does not take much for some men to get turned on. I was and am still one of them. As you get older it may take a little more but it still happens. I guess I am one of those guys that thinks with the brains in the head of his dick. Thinks about sex all the time.

If you love to sleeping with him then make sure that he gets satisfied as soon as you go to bed. Sleeping is another room will not solve this problem. He will still be thinking about sex.