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Originally Posted by SxyStar Does anyone have any advice? I'm scared of masturbating in front of my man. I want him to know what feels good to me, but I am scared of what he will think of me. B/c one night he was asleep and I was in the mood. I started watching Lesbian porn and when I told him about it. He seemed offended, b/c watching two girls get off, got me off more then watching a man and a woman. What can I do? I want to be honest with him. He already knows that I am bi-sexual. |
Well if your b/f has a problem with you watching lesbian porn that's his hang up not yours. Just because you like watching it doesn't mean anything so he needs to get over his insecurities. Your being honest and openly communicating your likes and how you like something done. He should be glad to have this happen. Good communication is the key, many couples go their entire time together guessing or trying to figure out how to please their partner which often leads to frustration on both parts. A little simple communication and in your case some visualization will go a long way. My wife and I have a great sex life as far as I am concerned and I have watched her masturbate countless times and never get tired of it and very often she will have me lay back while we are making love and watch her finger herself and rub he clit and play with her titties. She knows this is a huge turn on for me as men are very visual creatures and some times watching it is almost as much fun as doing it.