This is very embarrassing. Help!.

[madstyle]

This is very embarrasing for me but I need some help on this issue.

I have been masturbating since I was 12 years old and have a very high sex drive, I'am also a virgin, male never had a girlfriend before. If there's anything I have learned about myself is I cum a lot. The volume is getting larger by the years and its getting to the point where I'am affraid to reaching orgasm and making a huge mess its embarrsing sometimes. If I don't cum everyday like my sex drive goes through the roof, I then have unessary errections at times I don't want them(which is never) and then I when I cum its like a fountain.

When its time to clean up I use an old blanket it works but like I have to wash it sooner or later and i don't want to use it in the washer and dryer cause other people use it and I don't want to pass my DNA around if you know what I'am saying?. Last night was not fun at all washing it in the washer.


Is there anyway to be a bit cleaner about the way I masturbate?. Also if I ever do get around to having sex will women enjoy a guy who cum's a lot? I'am a bit embarrased about that as well and I can't change it.

[watershadow]

You could masturbate into a sock, or with a condom on. That would in theory reduce the mess when the happy event occurs. Being female myself, I don't think I could speak exclusively for womankind everywhere, but if a man is having sex with me, and comes a LOT, I'd be very very very (to the nth power) flattered. Nothing to worry about on that score!

Hope that helps!

[Virgo]

A few guys I know hold a tissue over the end of their penis when they know they're about to cum. Seems to work for them *shrugs*

[madstyle]

I checked into a fleshlight and well they are rather expensive at the moment but I will get one in the near future unless I get into a relationship. Condoms are great but thats $3 a pack everytime and it gets very expensive overtime and you can't really use them, they do feel great though especially when your finished you don't have a mess to clean. Socks are very expensive as well and they work just as good except mosture tends to bleed through the materal and with the force of ejaculate it goes right throught it like nothing.

In the meanwhile I have been using cloth I bought at the local store and it works very well compared with the blanket. When I use it all up I have plans on throwing it away in the meanwhile I will enjoy every inche of it.

As of late though I just do not understand why when I cum there's just so much sperm even when I have mulitubule times that day maybe its because I have a high sex drive?.

[igor]

Get yourself a box of rubber or latex gloves (the thin ones that janitors or food preparers use) and jerk off into that. They are probably cheaper than condoms.

[kinkyafrohubby]

or generic ziploc bags

[madstyle]

I'm thinking about getting a fleshlight. That way I cum inside of it as much as id like and never get anything else messy.

In the meantime those ruber latex gloves are doing just fine. Ziplocs hurt sometimes even the surran wrap hurts at times.

The only thing i'm shy of is if a woman is giving me a handjob and I cum all over her but thats always been one of my personal fantasys to do though.

[Jax315]

masterbate in the shower if you can. that way if it gets all over it all gets washed away anyways right.

[madstyle]

Originally Posted by watershadow

You could masturbate into a sock, or with a condom on. That would in theory reduce the mess when the happy event occurs. Being female myself, I don't think I could speak exclusively for womankind everywhere, but if a man is having sex with me, and comes a LOT, I'd be very very very (to the nth power) flattered. Nothing to worry about on that score!

Hope that helps!

Watershadow I hope I meet a girl who's understand like you are.


To everyone else I have been on a diet of cutting back and the salt and suger and after losing 50lbs it feels great and I guess the little that I have lost is starting to show.

Id say once I become more healthy I can probably ejaculate like those men do in porn. I'm starting to learn more about my body and how it works and I have managed to cum a lot more than average everytime I masturbate.

[Newby]

@madstyle

You can use condoms with fleshlights, saves cleaning up a sticky mess.

Congrats on the weight loss and best of luck continuing your fitness regime.