stretch

[slammed2000]

my husband and i want to try fisting and he has pretty big hands so we are trying to work our way up to it. we are trying to stretch me out by adding dildo's everytime we play but sure is taking a long time and seems like we have hit a wall. he can't seem to stretch me any further! any idea's or help.
he can get all five fingers in just can't get past the knuckles.

[robert]

I don't have any personal experience with it, but based on other posts I've read here it's not so much about "stretching" it, but making your muscles relax enough to take it... So building up to it just makes your muscles used to relaxing to that extent - maybe you need to do relaxation exercises while doing it as well as a massive amount of lube?

Again that's all unconfirmed because I don't have first hand knowledge, and I might have misinterpreted the posts I read

[CaptCurious]

It's definitely a process.

Things that help:

Lots and lots and lots of lube and then a little bit more, gloves can be helpful too as they reduce friction.

Lots of practice (sounds like you are getting that) and lots of patience.

Relaxation... if you can cum more than once, cum and then start working towards it. I think it helps relax all the muscles in the pelvic area.

Your partner should tuck his thumb into his palm when fisting... some people think you start with a fist and just shove it in. *ouch*

Use a twisting motion, rotate the hand/wrist from side to side rather than just straight in.

One of the most helpful things for us... I came down onto my partner's fist rather than her pushing it into me (hope that makes sense). It gave me a lot of control over the situation as I could stop/start or go slower/faster. It also helped my partner relax as she was very worried about hurting me.

It was also very helpful to change positions... we usually started out with me laying on my back then switched to me on my hands and knee (better leverage) and then back to me laying on my back. Moving around lets the hand go in at different angles.

Hope its helpful!!!

Regards,
CC

Originally Posted by slammed2000

my husband and i want to try fisting and he has pretty big hands so we are trying to work our way up to it. we are trying to stretch me out by adding dildo's everytime we play but sure is taking a long time and seems like we have hit a wall. he can't seem to stretch me any further! any idea's or help.
he can get all five fingers in just can't get past the knuckles.