I'm done with porn!.

[madstyle]

Since my early age since I can remember I have been watching porn for sometime now and it has been kind of addicting however I never let it get out of control where it dicates who I'am.

Most importantly though porn has helped me through the years from astaining sexual activitys with people in person till the right one comes along(which will probably never happen ) It has helped me astain from the wrong sexual activites while there was no willing partner and it really kept me in check over the years because I was not looking for it at any given time I could pop in the DVD and have fun.

As of yesturday I made a choice through my spritial and most importantly my personal growth to no longer use Porn as a tool to help me masturbate. It left me feeling so dull and wanting more to the point where I wish I could feel that emotional conection with that other person which porn could not give me instead teased me.

It was very enjoyable, I learned a lot from watching it, many great nights and early midnights but those days are just over, I distroyed my tapes and DVD's that I bought back when I was 18.

I do want to continue to masturbate though because if I don't I heard that a man will have a discharge and will ejaculate without any sexual activity and well I don't want to deal with the mess or the unwanted errections.. . its a natural thing to do it relives stress and sexual tension out of my body and feels great

I hope I'm still considered a "man" after making this choice, its not hard nor its not going to be easy but I feel like its gonna be worth it for myself personally. Its time I "Grow up" a bit. I want to put my thoughts in a more positive direction rather than looking at women in a slutty way you know. I feel like Porn no longer offers what meets my needs.

Any thoughts? from women especially?.

[igor]

I find that most porn no longer really excites me so I don't look at it like I used to. You are not less of a man because you want to drop it. You can still continue to masturbate - nothing wrong with that.

[Question11]

Originally Posted by igor

I find that most porn no longer really excites me so I don't look at it like I used to. You are not less of a man because you want to drop it. You can still continue to masturbate - nothing wrong with that.

same here, porn no longer excites me either. magazines and pictures have never turned me on. and for a while videos were my material, but now ive lost the connection with them. i don't even get hard watching porn movies anymore. the only thing that turns me on is fantasies, and that's what im left with. unless, of course im actually with a partner. which should happen more often than it does.

i watch it sometimes, but i never masturbate during it because it just doesn't do it for me anymore. so im on the way to quitting myself.

so igor is right, u are not any less of a man. porn is smut anyway

[anaesthetic]

Well, good luck with your decision.

[madstyle]

Porn leaves me feeling empty when I watch it. Its fake I know its not real and it doesn't fill in that gap I seek to fill in someday.

I think its very sexy to watch but there's no point on it. Theres nothing for me.